"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's a friday night, what are you doing here?

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Play the Game

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That's right you!
If you're reading this, then I'm probably already at a party having fun.
Meanwhile you're here all depressed, probably worrying about why your gf doesn't love you or why girls don't like you.

They don't like you well,
I'm gonna have to be brutally honest here....

Because YOU're a pathetic LOSER with NO LIFE.
so... GET THE HELL OUT OF YOUR ROOM AND SOCIALIZE!

Get some friends be friendly, it's not that ****ing hard.
Alcohol makes everyone friendly.

Have fun,

PTG :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LowPlainsDrifter

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Completely alone...bitter and f--- angry about it.
 
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Its ok

for now, as I'm preoccupied with exams, and well I've been approaching, so I'm not feeling bitter at all..

Positivity flows from me, negativity will not aid me in my quest...
 
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I went out clubbing solo tonight. It was quite difficult, but it didn't stop me from making ten approaches. I only asked for, and received, a single phone number.

It can be done. The only reason it can be done for me is that I practised. That means that the first time I tried this, I completely failed. Then as time went on, I did not fail as much. Now I have success.

A big factor for guys avoiding social contact is that they think they will receive failure, and they're right to the bone on that one. It's true, they will fail, but it needs to be considered a pathway to success.

So, go out and socialise, and fail miserably. At least you started a process.

But it's only a simple idea - its as about as well conceived as my brain state, with it being 3am here.

Regards,
Nick
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fred Da Head

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Considering the OP posted this on a Friday night.. is he a pathetic loser with no life as well?

Anyway, it's been a hard week and I'm just finishing up some work I need to get out of the way.. I'll party tomorrow night.
 
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Michele l'Arcangelo

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why am i here?

cuz i have work tomorrow and i have to wake up early aro8nd 10AM... especially since i usually wake up at 2PM... it sucks... ya.

well i just started the job... first job to be exact... so i dont want to screw it up...

so whatcha doin here?

oh? you were trying to give reverse psychology. i get it... i've never seen anyone else do it on this forums... you're definitely the first one. you're creative.

anyways... luckily i work with some pretty good looking chicks.
 
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Booo, came home from a party early and I'm pretty tanked...time to go play Guitar Hero:rockon:

P.S. I agree with the poster, NOBODY should sit at home when there are SO many things to do. (unless you want to)
 
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I will unleash the beast within me as soon as I get back to Vegas. Now it's just me and my final that's in 6 days.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Working....
 
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I got c0ck blocked tonite by a girl... so there. :trouble:

Hope everyone else had fun though!
That was just a motivator... don't get so upset.
 
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I talked to more hot girls today from 1 pm to about an hour ago, then most people will all week long...months for others.

Vegas baby! Livin the dream:up:
 
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PRMoon said:
I talked to more hot girls today from 1 pm to about an hour ago, then most people will all week long...months for others.

Vegas baby! Livin the dream:up:
Click to expand...
You know I hate you for it.
 
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I just got back from clubbing. Man went out with a couple of AFC's.... Bad night tonight. No number closes. Only conversated with one girl. Went to the dumbest club ever. I wanted to get the fvck out as soon as I walked in..

See this is what i hate. I should have just worked out. Instead I skipped my workout... Smoked my azz off. Drank my azz off and will feel like sh1t tomorrow.... I am getting too old for this sh1t


I think I am going to take 1 month break from clubbing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Same as above. Just came back from clubbing with friends from school(guys and girls). Didnt sarge, all GOOD LOOKING chicks were taken and the fat ones kinda sat around waiting for the next desperate chump.
 
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