"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's a Fly World: Mayfly's Journal

Mayfly

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I realized this when I was rapping tonight. Yes, I write, produce, and spit my own tracks. But that's beside the point.

I decided that I need to bring the confidence that I display in my rapping, when I am alone, out to the "field" with me. When I am spitting my lyrics into the microphone, I feel powerful. I am the man in control.

I don't know what it is, but the power that I get and the confidence that I get, I want to go out and do something after doing it. It worked before a few parties in college where I wrote a little something, recorded it, and then went out into the game. I carried myself taller and stronger, if it was only because of the rapping.

I decided that I need to carry that confidence that I have, not only in my rapping, but my job, to the outside world when it comes to women. They will see me as an alpha male and therefore respond better than they already do.

Here's an exclusive for you SoSuave members. It's the newest Mayfly track featuring Hard Target called "Simma Down".

http://www.zshare.net/audio/49410848f1c7bc/
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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j0n024

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Good luck when you go with Brak man cant wait for the update. I am actually going out dj'ng tonigh(never really liked to call it sarging it just sound weird lol) so hopefully I do good, nice song man. Ohh and by the way how do you think of things to do? I mean you just took off her hat and put it on? Did you think about it or did you just wing it? Good luck.
 

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j0n024 said:
Good luck when you go with Brak man cant wait for the update. I am actually going out dj'ng tonigh(never really liked to call it sarging it just sound weird lol) so hopefully I do good, nice song man. Ohh and by the way how do you think of things to do? I mean you just took off her hat and put it on? Did you think about it or did you just wing it? Good luck.
I just took it off her head. If you give too much thought to the "game" you have already lost. I say and do whatever is on the top of my head/tongue. Sometimes it gets me into trouble, but I don't follow a set pattern of neg, compliment, neg, neg...
 

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Good Luck son! Hope all things work out for ya man!
 

j0n024

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I see thanks for the tips I actually do my own thing as well. I mean I do think about what I'm going to do but after a while I'll just wing it haha good luck and hopefully I'll be as good as you , now to get ready for 2night later.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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moto

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Mayfly said:
I just took it off her head. If you give too much thought to the "game" you have already lost. I say and do whatever is on the top of my head/tongue. Sometimes it gets me into trouble, but I don't follow a set pattern of neg, compliment, neg, neg...
Thats great man. Its good to hear that it comes naturally instead of following a set pattern, and you learn from your experiences.
 

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Well I am back from hanging out with Brak, and last night was our most successful. We went out kind of late after watching a football game, but walked to a party that he knew of.

On the street, two girls were approaching, they looked pretty good. I stopped both of them and ask them if they know where the street is where we're going. They tell us that they were just coming from there. I immediately responded with "So you're telling us to go to a party that you guys are leaving? Can't be that good, now, can it?" They laughed and said they were just going to get something else on.

We get into the party and go downstairs. Music is bumping and plenty of girls down there. Brak leads the way through to get a cup and we're looking around. We each get a cup and I start to get to work. When I first got in there, I tried to establish some kind of rapport with people in there (dancing, talking, etc).

Near the keg, this HB7.5 comes walking by and is looking for a guy she came with. I say "He went over there," pointing right at him. She asks "Do I know you?" I said "No, but why not take a chance at it?" I introduced myself to her, got a huge smile and then we broke away from each other as she went to the guy she came with.

We get back into the main area of the basement, and everyone is enjoying themselves dancing and I am getting into it. I get pulled onto the dance floor by an HB6 and we're dancing for a while, the songs are going well. Not much chance for talking, but we're having fun anyway.

The rest of the night pretty much went this way, with girls pulling me on to the dance floor to dance with them, but Brak and his friends decided they weren't feeling the party and we leave.

Overall, I got a lot of confidence out of it, and it goes to show that if you look like you are having a good time, people will around you and then you will get pulled on the dance floor.
 

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I told ya Brak was a really cool and chill guy.
Tell him i said watsup next time u have word with him. :)

-HeyJose
 
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