"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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its a bad thing to think like a woman

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Most of my friend i hang out with are nice guys my work environment is a nice guy, **** my father is a nice guy... Nothings wrong with nices guys right but thats not what we want... pook said something about nice guys are misrable inside. and his right.... they are... but they also think there satisfied... i dont know how to open there eyes they just make me angry. theres this one nice guy i work with... told my friend that he wants to kill himself his serious too. his wife hates him all the nice guy problem stuff he has them.. the only thing thats stoppng him is he is too much of a nice guy to actually pull the triger... he told my friend he would even buy the bullets... he just cant shoot himself... anyways nice guys are really miserable. i dont know whats stopping them from getting what they really want...


my nice guy friends keep trying to change me... they think im immature child like... what i really hate is they cant see it... im just trying to have fun at every ones expence... guys dont be a nice guy... you might kill yourself... i mean dont think like a women... if your a guy
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't think you have to be "angry" to be happy. Hell, I'm a nice guy and I'm more than happy.

There's a difference between being a nice guy and being a pushover.

When it comes to women, there are those who get it and those who don't. Those who think the can change a woman with reason, while women can only be swayed by feelings. You can't talk a woman into loving you.

This has nothing to do with being a nice guy or a mean guy.

People on here use the term 'nice guy' on here to refer to men who are too nice and forgiving for their own good, while there are plenty of friendly guys out there who know exactly what they're doing
 
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Reason does not sway females? In the words of Spock himself: "That is illogical."
 
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lol

what i was trying to say is dont think like a woman. bc i think this is why my friend wanted to kill himself. i call him a nice guys caz he plays that role with his life... and when he goes after a woman he use the jerk role.. jerks think like a woman too... my nice guys friends... keep calling me stupid for not chasing this hot girl... and my jerks friends laugh at me in a very annoying way when i dont bang a chick after i take her home.... A dj is not a nice guy or a jerk... his a good guy... in between nice and jerks.. and these type of guys keep critizing me. and its annoying caz when i try to explain what im doing. they dont get it... sometimes i ask myself how do you make these guys leave you alone..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I didn’t bother reading the thread in any detail, but to answer the title…

Know how a woman thinks and understand why she thinks that way… then, think like the guy that you are…
 
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Ashley is a girls name... lol and your a don master...... do you master girls or guys...?
 
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Don't think like a woman bro, you might end up buying tampons.
 
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LAWYER said:
...my nice guy friends keep trying to change me...
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Misery loves company. Accept it as a way of life, their life.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Franc... i know i hate it...
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Whatever you do, don't allow it to redefine your character.
 
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well i just hope... that im going to keep improving myself... to the very last
 
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