"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Its 2005 I've got issues I could use your feedback guys

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Ok listen up all you DJs and non DJs this year may be my most challenging year yet in my romance life at least for the month of january before i continue though i'll just list my problems and outlook.

- i have a girlfriend who i wish to dump asap
- i have this mystery girl waiting in the wings
- and the all time dreaded curse is i still love my ex

okay about my girlfriend i cant stand the ***** i want to dump her but am just to cowardly to get it over with. we have been going out for just under 2 months we use 2 work together thats how we met and i dont like her anymore, shes selfish, spoiled, uncompassionate, lacking emotions, uncompromising etc...i tried 2 make this work but just couldn't get the relationship going i'm just not happy. next

my ex and i are still very close friends and we both know that we stll love & care about eachother but things just dont work between us period. (and no we're not sleepin w/eachother 4 those that may be curious) i dont like her new bf because she is a single mother and this jerk doesnt give 2 ****s about her kids. now i guess i brought this up because i may just be jealous i am still close w/her family they adore me and still rather me be w/her lol her bf hates that..anyways now onto my last agenda

theres a new girl who has just arrived into my life she called me out of the blue one day and claims i gave her my # a while ago lol and 4 the life of me i just dont remember....anyways this girl is like a complete mystery to me she has called me many times and we have talked 2 wee hours in the morning this girl just sounds absolutly amazing but just so unreal but i have yet to meet her some times she finds me silent on the phone and i catch myself asking her if she fell from heaven yup thats my dilemna now

i mean guys i'm no player or rico suave here i'm just an average joe looking for his jane i mean i just want 2 find a nice girl i can settle down with. i have other female friends 2 that i wonder about asking out romantically sometimes but i just dont want to scare them off. sometimes women like spontaneouty but i mean i dunno i guess i'm just weighing my options here. women are complicated creatures that no science will ever illistrate clearly.
guys i guess i could use some help
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Chris_Styles

okay about my girlfriend i cant stand the ***** i want to dump her but am just to cowardly to get it over with. we have been going out for just under 2 months we use 2 work together thats how we met and i dont like her anymore, shes selfish, spoiled, uncompassionate, lacking emotions, uncompromising etc...i tried 2 make this work but just couldn't get the relationship going i'm just not happy. next

Why the hell would you ever go for such a girl like that?
 

Chris_Styles

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lol hey WORKEROUTER she WAS a sweet girl in the beginning use to bring me lunch @ work and everything.
 
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Dude, you are 24 years old - pursue that which is greaterc and most beneficial to your existence!!!
 
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