"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Italian Guys/girls

Tao of Steve

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Any guys of italian descent (not born there) who use their 'italianess' in DJing? do some non-italian women respond (ie the 'latin lover' thing?)

how many have experience with women of italian background?what have they been like?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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stevera004

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Originally posted by Tao of Steve
how many have experience with women of italian background?what have they been like?
If they're born locally, then they're local, regardless of what they think they are.

PS: It's surprising that you're asking the question (being from T.O.); lots and lots of 'Italian' women to have experience with here. No need to ask questions about it. Find out for yourself.
 

italostud

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It's hard to give you a description that's going to fit EVERY italian woman. Generally, they're good girls, sometimes it may take you longer to get them in bed if they're had a good upbringing. Italian parents tend to instill good values in their girls. Then again, my first girlfriend was an italian girl who ****ed me the first night i drove her home. So it's really hard to say. I can tell you this however, if the girl is Sicilian, just watch out because italian dads, sicilians in particular, are very protective of their daughters.

Now as far as using "italianness" to DJ. I've found that it's always helped out. As soon as a girl hears you're italian, her eyes will light up. Generally when women speak of italian men, these things will come up: Good looking, treats a woman well, can be a womanizer, generally have big ****s...etc, so if you're italian, you've already got some good word-of-mouth going around about you, regardless of whether or not it's true.
 

DJDamage

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italostud is right. I am from Toronto, and we got a huge Italian Community here and most of those guys score big because there upbringing and looks are what a Don Juan is all about.

I am not Italian but hanging around those guys, I can see why women from all walks of life are attracted to them.

Italian guys often are tall dark, who work out alot. They dress nicely, and aren't afraid to be who they are, they are very friendly and can have conversation about nothing but still make it intresting and funny. They like to drink and party and don't give a damn attitude. They are not Average by a long shot (Joey from Friends is a good example)

If you are Caucasian like me its harder to pick up girls in the room full of Italians, I can tell you that much. Also Italian Women are very pretty but they usually prefer to date Italian Men and wants to get married as soon as possible.
 
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