Distant Light said:
I see what your talking about and I agree all of this should be fun, but this is a seduction site the whole point is to fuvk girls, so we mainly doing everything that revolves around getting laid. Now if you just want to be some social guy it really doesn't matter what you do just go out and talk where ever you go. If you didn't like the girl ok... but if you wanted to fuvk her and pass it up your basically giving up a learning experience. That is why most girls I would approach because I want to learn quicker than sitting there making excuses why i didn't approach that specific girl.
Yea, but I wasn't gonna call her anyway, I'm leaving from here in like two weeks thank God.
But all I mean is that when you are selfless it accomplishes a few things:
1. People liket o be aroud you and feel good in your presence.
2. You are more relaxed and confident in yourself, because you aren't out to use people.
3. When you aren't worried about results, you often find that doors will open that benefit you ANYWAY without having to do all the hard work of techniues, looking for IOIs etc.
I'm not saying complimenting every girl is the way to go, but I'm saying use it on the women you truly WANT to compliment. Again, I don't have all the experience in this area, I'll admit, but being selfless and genuine has gotten me tons far so far, so if my experience thus far is an indicator of future success then it's all good, but i respect your opinion too, either way if it works for both of us then we both are successful right lol?
And by selfless I don't mean letting people walk all over you and ****, in fact, selfess may not be the proper term, because I believe everything in this world is selfish to some aspect, but I'm not gonna get all philosphical. Genuine may be better.
Also in closing, there was something with David X where he was talking about this very thing, and he goes something like, "If you like something about a woman, take a second, pause and see what attracted you to her. And then let her know. Say something like, "hey....that dress looks FANTASTIC on you....even if we don't go out could you dress my next girlfriend?". Kind of neggish if you want but still, its genuinity (damnit I don't care if its not a word
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still guys, I don't wanna argue with anyone, so I wanna say thanks to people like Distant for having an intelligent convo without flipping the **** out because someone has a dfferent belief.