"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It was water retention all along!

Jariel

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I got into bodybuilding about 5-6 years ago and managed to bulk up pretty big. When I started cutting I developed great definition in my chest, arms and could even see my top 4 abs. However, I still had a slight pot belly and flabby love handles. I figured I'd try cutting even more strictly, but all this did was burn off muscle and my love handles still wouldn't shift.

I'd read about subcutaneous water retention before, but was always under the impression that it was never more than a bit of softness covering the muscle. I never thought it could cause a flabby belly.

I had noticed that this flab would get worse on some days and better on others, but couldn't understand why. But to cut a long story short, I decided to follow a water-shedding diet for a while and see how I got on.

For the following week I dropped most carbs after breakfast and tried to avoid sugar and salt as much as possible. I drank around 5 litres of water per day and started taking dandelion root (a natural diuretic).

In less than a week I started to notice the "fat" disappearing. I'd wake up each morning with more muscle definition than the day before, my stomach was flatter and firmer and my love handles were melting away. 2 weeks on and I can see my abs...all of them!

So I've been reviewing my diet, wondering what the hell could've caused me to retain so much water. The culprit is bread. A long time ago I switched from white bread to wholemeal, but I fell into that mental trap of thinking "it's healthy, I can eat as much as I like" and would eat upto 8 slices per day, almost every day. This was clearly too much and was causing me to retain a lot of water and bloat up.

Anyway, I just wanted to share this with everyone. If you find yourself carrying a flabby belly when the rest of your body is in good shape, then it might just be excess water retention.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I've been cutting bread out of my diet, and I'm noticing a big difference. I still eat a few slices of whole wheat a day, but I'm going to try to go no bread to see what happens.
 

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Bread will helps to decrease body weight. Water will helps to purify our body. I had good experience with water. Since I was in hot country I found good difference. If I drunk more water in 3, 4 days continuously my face will give clear look, if I didn't take more water my face will give dirty look with pimples.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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