"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It was that easy?

SikWitIt

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So i got this HB10 all into me but i feel like a fraud,fake,phony like i tricked her i knew every little move,test etc an i passed them all. Im like the king of the room, all the women smile an fight for my attention. Somebody say's my name an all of a sudden im the center of attention....Wtf ?

Im kinda confused right now ive run game on alot of girls but i never got the one i was really after. Im feeling afc right now, her friends invited me to the club with them later this month i suck at dancing dont wanna look like a tard.

Not to mention im staying with my mom right now,Ive built myself up to be this fake person that im nothing like all just to get the girl i desire :confused:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Five To One

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Embrace the life you have always wanted. Unless you dont want it?

It will only work if you believe this is who you want to be. Its weird at times in the beginning but will become normal as time goes by.


Oh and work on inner game, weight train and better yourself. Its time to move out if staying with your mom is bothering you. Doing this will make it easier to embrace the new you.
 

jacob

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That's the trouble with guys learning the game. You start to become fake and it'll work against you. You'll start to analyze every little thing she says and does and every little thing you say and do.

I say just absorb what you learn and then leave it for times when you have to bust out the secret weapons.

Be yourself how you would act in front of your sister and maybe use techniques 30% of the time.

Only when crisis arises and you find yourself in a situation described and not sure what to do then you pull out the big guns.

Cause in my experience I want a girl to love the real me and know who I actually am instead of a persona put together through attraction techniques.
 

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If you think you are pretending or it feels like you are just putting on an act to get women, that's not unusual for people making a transition like this. Don't worry, you've just got to get used to the new you.

If you keep up the "act" long enough, eventually it will stop being just an act.
 

Gangster Of Love

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SikWitIt said:
So i got this HB10 all into me but i feel like a fraud,fake,phony like i tricked her i knew every little move,test etc an i passed them all. Im like the king of the room, all the women smile an fight for my attention. Somebody say's my name an all of a sudden im the center of attention....Wtf ?

Im kinda confused right now ive run game on alot of girls but i never got the one i was really after. Im feeling afc right now, her friends invited me to the club with them later this month i suck at dancing dont wanna look like a tard.

Not to mention im staying with my mom right now,Ive built myself up to be this fake person that im nothing like all just to get the girl i desire :confused:
How would you feel about her if she was a HB7, and not a "HB10"? Basically, you are saying you are crumbling under her beauty, without even having her prove herself to you that she is worthy of a great guy, which, you should consider yourself.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Solomon

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Mystery strikes again!!!

SikWitIt said:
So i got this HB10 all into me but i feel like a fraud,fake,phony like i tricked her i knew every little move,test etc an i passed them all. Im like the king of the room, all the women smile an fight for my attention. Somebody say's my name an all of a sudden im the center of attention....Wtf ?

Im kinda confused right now ive run game on alot of girls but i never got the one i was really after. Im feeling afc right now, her friends invited me to the club with them later this month i suck at dancing dont wanna look like a tard.

Not to mention im staying with my mom right now,Ive built myself up to be this fake person that im nothing like all just to get the girl i desire :confused:

Did you use the SS glorified Mystery Method?

If so, I feel sorry for ya...

:nono:
 

Young Juan

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SikWitIt said:
So i got this HB10 all into me but i feel like a fraud,fake,phony like i tricked her i knew every little move,test etc an i passed them all. Im like the king of the room, all the women smile an fight for my attention. Somebody say's my name an all of a sudden im the center of attention....Wtf ?

Im kinda confused right now ive run game on alot of girls but i never got the one i was really after. Im feeling afc right now, her friends invited me to the club with them later this month i suck at dancing dont wanna look like a tard.

Not to mention im staying with my mom right now,Ive built myself up to be this fake person that im nothing like all just to get the girl i desire :confused:
IMHO, you've got the outer game, but not the inner game. Work on the inner game and realize this is only the first of many "10s" you'll pull in your lifetime if you get your inner game to match your outer. Win, lose or draw, you've already accomplished something so pat yourself on the back.
 

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Thats why you dont lie, cheat and steal. Like someone already said, work on the inner game, son.
 

KontrollerX

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Definitely work on the inner game until you are this guy the HB10 fell for and if you need motivation to really become this guy use the thought of the HB10 you are into sucking off someother chump and telling him what a loser you turned out to be when she find out who you really were and dumped your ass.

So yeah bro don't feel any guilt over getting her where you want her now because she's not going to feel any guilt getting rid of you if she finds you not up to par.

In this instance fake it till you make it, give her what she wants to see and you start to believe in yourself as this man.
 
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