"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It was a beautiful goodbye

saddenhusband11

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My wife have been battling cancer for a year already. Just last week, she died in my arms. It was heartbreaking, I cried a lot, but the thought of still having our kids with me is enough to say “I need to move on”. Before that tragic event, she made me promised to take care of our kids and continue with my life. It took me seconds to respond. I said “Yes”. A week before her passing, I already accepted the fact that she’ll die soon.

This was made clearer when our family doctor attested what I was thinking. My memories with her are still fresh. Our first meeting to a romance date tour, our wedding day, welcoming our kids to our lives, until the day she closed her eyes and die.It might be unusual to say but “it was a beautiful goodbye” with her. I know she’s in the right place now. Years from now, I’ll be with her again.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Spinach

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Sorry for your loss. Honor her memory by doing what she requested. Live. Good luck.
 
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