Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"It turns me on to think of you with another girl..."

Between_The_Lines

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Anyone ever heard this or some variation of it from a plate or gf? I've heard it several times, but never have had the pleasure of going through with it (they usually immediately take it back and dismiss it as silly or that the ensuing level of jealousy would be unbearable). I suppose this means dread game is right on point?

Anyhow, I'd rank it as one of the hottest things a girl can say, up there with "do whatever you want to me".
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sounds like the female version of cuckold.
 

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Between_The_Lines said:
Anyhow, I'd rank it as one of the hottest things a girl can say, up there with "do whatever you want to me".
I hate hearing this. It's just a cover-up for putting all the pressure and work on you. She can take her @ss and put in work too.
 

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If she likes that, bring another one and let her watch.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey... if you want this to happen, then you MUST act on it. If she says this to you she is giving you a green light.

I was in a relationship like this with a bi woman a couple of years ago.... if was great.... But I will tell you that it does get strange at times. Your bi girl friend gets REALLY weird about how you look. Because her ability to pull hot girls for three-somes, is directly proportional to how YOU look. She was always draging me to the gym, eating like a rabbit.... She basically turns you into a fashion slave, weight obsessed chick... I had the lowest body fat percentage of my life.

She eventually moved away I get e-mails from her sometimes. I scratched that off my bucket list.

Word of advice.... if you are interested in something like this happening for you then you MUST bring up up early in your relationship. This isn't something you can bring up if you are dating a women for several months.
 

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skinnyguy said:
BPD at its finest
Uhh yes...I dated a BPD girl who actually enjoyed watching me drill the hell out of another girl. She'd just sit back and get herself off while I was balls deep in some other chick. It was interesting to say the least.
 

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RangerMIke said:
Hey... if you want this to happen, then you MUST act on it. If she says this to you she is giving you a green light.

I was in a relationship like this with a bi woman a couple of years ago.... if was great.... But I will tell you that it does get strange at times. Your bi girl friend gets REALLY weird about how you look. Because her ability to pull hot girls for three-somes, is directly proportional to how YOU look. She was always draging me to the gym, eating like a rabbit.... She basically turns you into a fashion slave, weight obsessed chick... I had the lowest body fat percentage of my life.

She eventually moved away I get e-mails from her sometimes. I scratched that off my bucket list.

Word of advice.... if you are interested in something like this happening for you then you MUST bring up up early in your relationship. This isn't something you can bring up if you are dating a women for several months.
I totally agree...SHE'S CURIOUS TO SAY THE LEAST.

Just as a warning if this all becomes reality... If she's a plate then all is well but me, personally I would not consider her girlfriend material...to each there own.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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