Ok, let me reiterate... I've found it easy to get laid IF you don't push for it. If you let the girl bring it up, and then striking when the iron is hot - its very easy. She sets em up, and you knock em down.
Whenever I try pushing the subject, act all touchy feely, and get too close - it doesn't work too well. Just gotta have a little patience and self-control. Just like how we let them do the chasing - it works better for this, as well. When you don't bring it up - they want it more.
What I usually do is begin with a friendly, casual vibe. Then, they start showing interest during the normal conversation. Usually by flirting, touching, etc. We talk for a while and whatever... Then, they start talking about all the sexual things they want to do. Usually at another time, after a few encounters. Then, when we hang out or whatever - they start touching and getting close... And you're in.
All you have to do is show genuine interest, seem like an interesting person, talk for a bit, and they'll show sexual interest in you. That's when the chase begins. You can't just push for sex right away.
A lot of what people consider being friend-zoned actually works very well. I always act like a friend, but not a good one that listens to their problems, etc. Then, they suggest, and I escalate. I never do the flirting or showing interest. They like to chase.
It all comes back to if the girl finds you attractive, though. You can act as friendly as you want, and they'll still want sex.
Edit: What's with the smiley's? I'm not putting them in...
