"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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it never fails me. part 2. her clothes will give you the signals

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THIS METHOD WORKS VERY TO PERFECTION IN SETTINGS SUCH AS WORK, SCHOOL OR ANY OTHER PLACE THAT YOU AND HER KNOW WHEN AND WHERE YOU'LL SEE EACH OTHER FOR SURE.

Always check the way she dresses before you give her a good convo or you send her some interest signs. give her indication of interest with a good convo and Then check the difference of her clothes style the next time you see her.
for example,,,
good convo or showed her indication of interest today..
tomorrow Ill be very aware of her type of clothes, whether she did her hair, is she dressing sexy? is she wearing high heels. lots of make up.
dont give her too much thought if she dont pay too much attention to you because she is playing "hard to get".
this is so effective that is comical.
you get to imagine and guess what she will wear and laugh out loud when yuo guessed right. after you notice her change of style the next steps will be as easy as taking candies from a baby becuase you already know she is interested.
it never fails me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She might be dressing up for someone else......but othe then that..yep it works and is a very good IOI.
 

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i'm sorry. I'm a bit confused. What exactly is the tip?
Look at what she's wearing?
um.. and..?
 

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I don't understand why you don't understand him.

The way a woman dresses when she knows for sure that she is going to see you says alot about the way she feels about you.

If you are taking her on a date and she dresses like crap she has no respect for you.

If you are taking her out and put much effort into her appearance and looks superhot then she's sending the signal that she really likes you.
 

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i see.. sorry, but the post is very badly written. Even when i read it now i still can't make out what he's trying to convey.

yeah, it's not really a huge insight anyway.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by pootwo
i see.. sorry, but the post is very badly written. Even when i read it now i still can't make out what he's trying to convey.

yeah, it's not really a huge insight anyway.
You just need hooked on phonics
 

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I find it effective to say something like "(certain colour) tops make me way more attracted to a woman than normal" or reword this if shes into you she'll remember and wear that colour if she has it. Thats quite a big IOI. Complement her on the top and if she says its new then thats a massive IOI.
 

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Forget color, pay attention to cleavage when on a date.

The more cleavage and breasts you see, the more she's in the mood for "Bedtime with Bonzo."

This doesn't mean she's ready to jump in the sack right this minute. What it does signal is that she's arrived pre-heated for your convenience.

So far, this little rule o' thumb has yet to fail me.
 

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good post from Bud, i have found this to be exactly true.

I know when i'm getting ass way before it happens, and when i'm not.
 
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