"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
**** it, need some advice
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Unless you're really, really hot as a guy the chances of getting nudes(which to me is what she thought you were hinting at wanting)from a girl you haven't met or ****ed yet are limited if the girl is attractive in any way. It's both an anti slut defense for which you can do nothing about because you haven't even met her yet(and any way you try to supplicate her for the nudes will make you look like a thirsty, desperate faggot), and, it's also a way she can deny you and stroke her own ego while getting some sweet attention whoring out of the way because she knows she has something(her body)you want.
My question is why you're bothering at all with this crap, when it comes to online dating you send a few messages back and forth to get the number, nothing serious, then you setup the date.