Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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It just hurts and doesnt make sense how she rather be on POF all day instead of seeme

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and I just dont understand why she wouldnt care or work things out with me even though she acted like she was into me and **** when we hung out? Sorry guys just been past week been hard for me I got 3 dates this week n stuff trying to meet new women but I dont know I know i made mistakes by confiding in her teling her my problems and being comfortable but she was being weird in beginning, like saying i dont know if she feels same attraction as I feel for her and I didnt feel like I should invest alot in relationship unless we were exclusive you know?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I dont know like the complaining just seemed like an excuse I mean Its not like I was able to do these things and be the guy I need to be you know?
 

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thelonewolflegend said:
teling her my problems
Your first mistake here. Don't tell her your problems unless they involve her and she can solve them. Telling a woman about your issues will dry her pvssy up faster than you can say uncle.

thelonewolflegend said:
like saying i dont know if she feels same attraction as I feel for her and I didnt feel like I should invest alot in relationship unless we were exclusive you know?
Seems she's just not that into you. Being needy is only gonna strengthen that feeling. Pull back, spin other plates, leave this girl alone for a while and when you do contact her, try to play it cool and smooth, without much emotion. Be confident.

There is way too much push in your game (to a point where it makes you seem like a needy little kid/beta/AFC) and no pull at all.

So, pull back, and make her come to you. If she doesn't come, too bad, she's just not interested in you. But that shouldn't be a problem because you have other plates. If you don't then start working on that, because you should.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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