"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It just hurts and doesnt make sense how she rather be on POF all day instead of seeme

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and I just dont understand why she wouldnt care or work things out with me even though she acted like she was into me and **** when we hung out? Sorry guys just been past week been hard for me I got 3 dates this week n stuff trying to meet new women but I dont know I know i made mistakes by confiding in her teling her my problems and being comfortable but she was being weird in beginning, like saying i dont know if she feels same attraction as I feel for her and I didnt feel like I should invest alot in relationship unless we were exclusive you know?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I dont know like the complaining just seemed like an excuse I mean Its not like I was able to do these things and be the guy I need to be you know?
 

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thelonewolflegend said:
teling her my problems
Your first mistake here. Don't tell her your problems unless they involve her and she can solve them. Telling a woman about your issues will dry her pvssy up faster than you can say uncle.

thelonewolflegend said:
like saying i dont know if she feels same attraction as I feel for her and I didnt feel like I should invest alot in relationship unless we were exclusive you know?
Seems she's just not that into you. Being needy is only gonna strengthen that feeling. Pull back, spin other plates, leave this girl alone for a while and when you do contact her, try to play it cool and smooth, without much emotion. Be confident.

There is way too much push in your game (to a point where it makes you seem like a needy little kid/beta/AFC) and no pull at all.

So, pull back, and make her come to you. If she doesn't come, too bad, she's just not interested in you. But that shouldn't be a problem because you have other plates. If you don't then start working on that, because you should.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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