"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It just doesn't make sense!

originaldj

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Alright. First off, I just want to say that I do not judge anybody becasue of his/her habits. Second of all I am just curious as to why some of you smoke. This whole site is about improving yourselves yet you take major steps backwards with your habit. I am just curious as I do not see any pros for smoking. It just seems thait it ruin your health and costs a lot of money. So out of curiousity what is the point?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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italostud

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Smoking can start from peer pressure, stress, thinking it makes you look cool.

In general, smoking does add a bit to the bad boy image, so there's a positive. Now don't all jump on me at once here, that's just one positive amidst about a thousand negatives. I'm aware of that.

It can also be a crutch to help you talk to women when smoking. For instance, if you go outside somewhere for a smoke and someone's smoking there as well, it is a little easier to open the conversation due to the fact that you're both smokers.

Aside from those and maybe a few other little positives, smoking is a shytty habit. Don't start if you don't already smoke.
 

diplomatic_lies

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Smoking is like eating chocolate. Its bad for you, but enjoyable enough to keep doing it.
 

manbearpig

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I don't smoke cigarettes, but I enjoy cigars from time to time. Cigars you usually do not inhale, and most people smoke less of them than cigarettes. But its still not good for you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Shiftkey

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diplomatic_lies said:
Smoking is like eating chocolate. Its bad for you, but enjoyable enough to keep doing it.
Except that chocolate doesn't make you smell like ****, make your teeth yellow, or kill you.
 

diplomatic_lies

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Shiftkey said:
Except that chocolate doesn't make you smell like ****, make your teeth yellow, or kill you.
Yes it does. In fact, it does all 3 things very well.
 

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Except that chocolate isn't in fact bad for you, and nothing like smoking.

Other than that they're the same.
 
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