"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It is official
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
How is this interesting?
Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
Have you seen her in Esquire lately?Night-hawk said:
Peaks&Valleys
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You're joking right?
Either way, IMO she's as overrated as it gets. A set of nice jugs but that's about it. Something about her just doesn't do it for me.
Either way, IMO she's as overrated as it gets. A set of nice jugs but that's about it. Something about her just doesn't do it for me.
Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
May Sanchez R.I.P.Peaks&Valleys said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
What kind of HB's are you into?Night-hawk said:
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
http://timdir.com/ashlyn_rae_bedroom_strip/ashlyn_rae_02.jpg
It's not even Kate Upton per say. It's articles and gossip and trendy media buzz like that that I raise my question. Besides, who cares about these girls flashing their bodies around. One of a million man.
In the spirit of this thread:
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=tHuCg-8de4g
It's not even Kate Upton per say. It's articles and gossip and trendy media buzz like that that I raise my question. Besides, who cares about these girls flashing their bodies around. One of a million man.
In the spirit of this thread:
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=tHuCg-8de4g
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Vantagepoint34
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See you in the presses boys
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
