It is not fair to say only target singles ones ,instead say "dont target marred ones"

[evan12]

When you graduate high school and especially after university , it is kind of hard to find single woman remaining especially good single woman , and from experience it is become all kind of upgrade , so if you have gf 6 and you can get 7 you will upgrade , and same thing apply for women , until finally get married then the upgrade process will freeze for a couple of years until kids grow up or things go bad or may be will last until death .

So in practical it seem if you want a woman older than 23(or even before ) it is most likely will be in some kind of relationship and she will dump her current one for you if she find value with you more than him . From the other side it seem women don't mind to hit on men in relationships , in fact they more willing to do that than the singles and may be because they know this fact , no good one will stay single.

I was thinking in that because I met a woman at work after 2 years , and she seem to have bf now , (she is very beautiful and nice ) , but in the same time she doesn't seem to like him , so if we look at the nature and history , it was always men take women of other men, and usually women just surrounded them selves to higher bidder , so if the prince took the wife of farmer , the wife now will be royal for that prince, even if the farmer still alive . and I have historical story about such indecent .

 

[Warrior74]

LOL. Sounds like you are trying to convince yourself it's okay to go after this chic because it's too hard to meet women in the adult world. I think you are lying yourself, but don't lie to us. You think it's hard to get out there and find what you want and you are lazy. How do I know you are lazy? "A woman at work" tells me that you are.

How about you get out there and meet some more women and spin some more plates. Hit some popular professional happy hour spots. Join some professional networking and social events in your industry and get some hobbies and joint like minded groups and go to events. Don't be a lazy chump who just waits for a new hot woman to get hired at work. Don't ruin your career over poon. Be smart.

Also. How do you even know that you are the prince here? Many a woman complains about her alpha boyfriend that won't do what she wants to her beta friends and girlfriends leading many a beta and coworker to think that they have a chance. I have a decent looking girl in my office who does exactly this. She whines about her dude, and that guy doesn't give a crap what she says. He just runs things and she accepts or whines to others. I know him. He is what the average beta would think of as a jerk. She has TONS of dudes offering her everything but she's stuck on the "jerky boyfriend". lol. Good luck with that plan.

"Don't wish it was easier, wish you were better." - Rollo Tomassi.

 

[evan12]

I still think it is hard to find normal single women over 23 . this girl just made me think that some body will take her eventually , when not be me.
In the past I let a hot girl who was wife material go because she have a bf and wasnt happy with him (and yes he was a nice guy ).

How do you even know that you are the prince here?

the prince is the more aggressive /stronger male , if a woman is emotionally available , some one sooner or later will take her .
we where brained washed dont go after woman with bf , but in reality women with bf always upgrade to another one , in theory they are not available but in reality they are available for the better one (prince ).and bty she didnt whine about him , she just seem to be available and she dont talk about him , so in her brain he is out

 

[Warrior74]

I still think it is hard to find normal single women over 23 . this girl just made me think that some body will take her eventually , when not be me.

Think. You think. What do you KNOW? What have you actually done? When have you tried?

 

[scrouds]

Not only is it okay to go after chicks with bfs, go after the married ones too. Why limit yourself?

 

[LiveFreeX]

Oh american men, you are so desperate for poon.

 

[evan12]

Think. You think. What do you KNOW? What have you actually done? When have you tried?

Why all this anger? my goals is not to get laid as much as possible by any whorre around , my subject is about women who can be good LTR material, who are still young and with little baggage. which seem they are all taken by age of 23 .

Oh american men, you are so desperate for poon.

It is not about poon , it is about finding a decent woman that you can build a good family
@Warrior74: that is beta eh? well, these betas have family and kids and are not chasing trashy women and sluts all the time.
having family in itself is not beta , but being pvssy to the wife is beta .

 

[zekko]

Why all this anger? my goals is not to get laid as much as possible by any whorre around , my subject is about women who can be good LTR material

Well, you should probably point that out from the beginning, because this site seems to be more about getting as much poon as possible. In fact, many members are very much anti-LTRs. Not myself, but many.

@Warrior74: that is beta eh? well, these betas have family and kids and are not chasing trashy women and sluts all the time.
having family in itself is not beta , but being pvssy to the wife is beta .

Good point, having a family is not for the faint of heart, and I certainly would not consider it beta. Even though the modern world has made this path fraught with risk and danger. It's a shame that this site glorifies the chasing trashy women and sluts route.

 

[Warrior74]

Why all this anger? my goals is not to get laid as much as possible by any whorre around , my subject is about women who can be good LTR material, who are still young and with little baggage. which seem they are all taken by age of 23 .

It is not about poon , it is about finding a decent woman that you can build a good family
@Warrior74: that is beta eh? well, these betas have family and kids and are not chasing trashy women and sluts all the time.
having family in itself is not beta , but being pvssy to the wife is beta .

You know, every time I express a opinion the OP always assumes its anger instead of just being, you know, right. See I know 23 year old women who are single. I know 24-25 year old women who aren't single who cheat with the right man. I know women under 30 who are dying to find a decent man. I know married women who will step out and married women who won't. This is what I know. My question to you is this. What do you know? You've told me what you think and you told me how it seems, but you haven't told me what you know and you haven't told me what you've tried. All you have done is defend beliefs.

Grab a fvcking clipboard and go do a survey go to where 20 something women hangout and ask if they are single and prove it to yourself. (you wont because you believe what you want to believe and you will not test your belief). I'm in marketing and we believe in testing. Test. Test. Test. What have you tested? I can't sell a product based what I think the market will want. I can only go out and test it. I've had things flop that I thought the market would eat up and I've had things sell that I thought was stupid as hell. What I think doesn't matter. How it seems doesn't matter. What I learn from testing is what matters. What have you tested?

@Warrior74: that is beta eh? well, these betas have family and kids and are not chasing trashy women and sluts all the time.
having family in itself is not beta , but being pvssy to the wife is beta .

That has no bearing on what you are asking and is irrelevant to your original post. It's a veiled defensive attack and shows your defensiveness. What do you know? What have you done? What have you tested?

 

[Driggs]

For a while there I had a thing for married women. They are easy to seduce.

 

[evan12]

@Zekko: I already mentioned "it is kind of hard to find single woman remaining especially good single woman" for sure I didnt mean in my post the women that they "choose" to be single , because these women already not relationship materials in most cases.

I certainly would not consider it beta

I agree ,the alpha males have offspring , most of men here have one to no offspring so the main reason of being alpha is not there .

the guys who mentioned about trying married women , these women already started their life .


I think you guys are not getting it because all what you want is to get laid , so you don't have standards about other features that make woman wife material.
try to find a respectful wife material woman who is single and over 23 and you will know what I meant .

go do a survey go to where 20 something women hangout and ask if they are single

there was some kind of survey done by a friend to around 10 women between 22 and 35 and ALL of them was married or in relationship except one was single but she had a big tattoo on her back.

Are you opening women daily?

Not really.I don't meet women every day .

 

[Ballie57]

Not only is it okay to go after chicks with bfs, go after the married ones too. Why limit yourself?

The original thread I will comment on. There is a very good reason that I don't go after married women anymore. Easy to seduce? Naw, you don't have to, they will seduce you!
Once and once? only - she was Helen and married to some Hells Angel biker dude - big motha of a man. I took her to Splashys and we had a jol. She was BPD and used to pick fights with him so that she had an excuse to leave him and fvck me - when she was horny.

I am a farmer now, at the local club there are plenty of married women - especially Nikki who has a crush on me. Tall slim blond, but with kids - no fat chicks here I am tempted yes - but do I want my face (as happened in this wild west of KZN) to be blown off with a 12 bore shotgun? I don't tink so!

 

[Warrior74]

there was some kind of survey done by a friend to around 10 women between 22 and 35 and ALL of them was married or in relationship except one was single but she had a big tattoo on her back.


Not really.I don't meet women every day .

So you are still telling me you know absolutly nothing. You don't go and meet any women, and we are supposed to cosign your BS? LOL. Get in the field. Get off your ass and stop being lazy. A man hunts and you ain't been hunting. Your trying to steal the next man's kill because it's easy. Lazy.

 

[evan12]

So you are still telling me you know absolutly nothing. You don't go and meet any women, and we are supposed to cosign your BS? LOL. Get in the field. Get off your ass and stop being lazy. A man hunts and you ain't been hunting. Your trying to steal the next man's kill because it's easy. Lazy.

I had some respect to you before this thread , but after you showed your nasty way in discussing things , I lost that respect .

 

[LiveFreeX]

Take a 2 week vacation to Mexico. You'll meet loads of women... use couchsurfing and line up 2 full weeks of dates before you get there. If you can afford it take a couple MONTHS off work. You can rent a small 2 bedroom in Mexico for 150 a month and feed yourself on 100 a month. Plan your finances for a year where all you do is date women all day long.
Its easy to do, I did when I was 25... what's stopping you? You could EASILY go to Japan for a couple of months and have TONS of women to date... go on 3 dates a day till you find what you're looking for. Did that aswell.

 

[Warrior74]

I had some respect to you before this thread , but after you showed your nasty way in discussing things , I lost that respect .

I do not care. I don't want your respect. I want you to be better. If that means hating me, fine. I'm not here for respect. I see a man making a big mistake in his thinking that will lead to his ruin. I will challenge you. If you don't want to be challenged, don't ask questions. I will not relent until you prove yourself right, the same as in real life. Nobody listens to what a man thinks or feels, they care about what you can do and prove. This weak man crap of going after a woman at work who has a boyfriend stuff is just retarded. You know it is or you wouldn't have asked in the first place.

 

[scrouds]

The original thread I will comment on. There is a very good reason that I don't go after married women anymore. Easy to seduce? Naw, you don't have to, they will seduce you!
Once and once? only - she was Helen and married to some Hells Angel biker dude - big motha of a man. I took her to Splashys and we had a jol. She was BPD and used to pick fights with him so that she had an excuse to leave him and fvck me - when she was horny.

I am a farmer now, at the local club there are plenty of married women - especially Nikki who has a crush on me. Tall slim blond, but with kids - no fat chicks here I am tempted yes - but do I want my face (as happened in this wild west of KZN) to be blown off with a 12 bore shotgun? I don't tink so!

Common sense goes a long way. If you take anything as absolute, you're a fool. Common sense would suggest not messing with the chick of someone like that. Also don't stick your penile implement in crazy.

 

[evan12]

@LiveFreeX,@bradd80: thank you guys for the advise, I always improve myself and approach women but lately I am more focusing on women who meet them in social places instead of random hit, these women are the ones with beauty and morals. if someone doesnt agree with me argument I have no problem , the problem with this guy he is disrespectful.

what's stopping you?

Nothing, I try every thing when I am just looking for some fun , I would keep that in mind !, but this thread was more about the kind of woman that you want it as a wife .

This weak man crap of going after a woman at work who has a boyfriend stuff is just retarded.

The only crappy man here is you , your anger and bitterness plus inability to talk in respectful way prove you are just a peace of trash.

You know it is or you wouldn't have asked in the first place.

even be polite or take your ass out of this thread , no one begging you for answers .

 

[Warrior74]

@LiveFreeX,@bradd80: thank you guys for the advise, I always improve myself and approach women but lately I am more focusing on women who meet them in social places instead of random hit, these women are the ones with beauty and morals. if someone doesnt agree with me argument I have no problem , the problem with this guy he is disrespectful.

Nothing, I try every thing when I am just looking for some fun , I would keep that in mind !, but this thread was more about the kind of woman that you want it as a wife .



The only crappy man here is you , your anger and bitterness plus inability to talk in respectful way prove you are just a peace of trash.

even be polite or take your ass out of this thread , no one begging you for answers .

If you agree with bradd80 you agree with me. I am the hammer, they are the velvet. Kid gloves alone won't make a man change his mind. His ideas must be challenged. You need both to break through a chumpish mindset. No man likes admitting they are wrong. They have to be told and proven wrong. I'm glad you finally are starting to listen.