"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It is always the ones you don't like, that like you!!

mahon83050

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I currently live in a graduate dorm.

Supposedly, three of the girls in my dorm have a thing for me.

However, I am not interested in dating any of these girls (for various reasons rangings from looks, height and personality)
and don't want to S*it where I sleep.

The ones I do like, do not like me back.

Ain't life a *****....HA HA
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thats one of the first lessons i learned

there was this girl i really didnt like but she liked me, what i didnt know was i was doing all the right things u should do to hot girls
 

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AMEN and AMEN to that ! ....

The ugly ones (Grenades) wont ever all go away unfortunately ... You want to tell them, "aint my fvcking fault that you're ugly and cant gain social acceptance and find a man to be with .... "

On a side note ...
So why does an ugly fatty, stand in the middle of some hot chicks at a club/party who you want to get with? - she cant stand the fact that a guy may want to get with one of her friends and she's there to make sure that it doesnt happen because it aint ever gonna happen for her
 

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i dont wanna disrespect less-sexxy girls

a lot of guys feel that theres pressure on them to be "sexy" and "cute" and so on, it's like ten times worse for girls
 

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Yea,

Aloofness and indifference sometimes gauge a girls interest.

As for the three girls that like me.

Girl #1: Not very cute (maybe a 5)

Girl #2: Good body, ok face, but a loud mouth and overall nut job. (stripper type)

Girl #3: Good personality, cute face...but 6'1". That is a turnoff.


I am no GQ model myself, maybe a 7-7.5, but alls I want is another 6.5-8 that is cute, no taller than 5'9" and nice. Is that too much to ask for? I think not
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by mahon83050
but alls I want is another 6.5-8 that is cute, no taller than 5'9" and nice. Is that too much to ask for? I think not
Why is height such a big deal for you mahon? Personally, I think tall chicks are sexy, but I have a hard time wheeling em' being 5'9"

It's funny about the aloofness with mild disinterest thing.. you stay busy for a HB8+... but they still have plenty of options so they don't get hung up on the fact that your a challenge when a ton of guys approach them every day vs. a HB7- don't have as much luck. And if the ugies don't want to work their arses off in the gym to become attractive or dress nicer with non-man clothes than that's their fault. heh!
 

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It's common knowledge that we are naturally smooth in situations with little pressure. When you are around girls you don't like, there's no pressure because you don't want them anyway. That lack of pressure makes you smooth and the girl likes it. It's a complete 180 when you are around girls that you're actually attracted to. You can try your best, but you'll never be as relaxed as you want to be.
 
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