It is all status/reputation to these women

[Dhoulmagus]

looks factor in too, but you have to be known for something or the most badass out of the pack. All my non fraternal friends give me **** because I'm in a fraternity and that I should be pulling ass. No, the girls only go for like 10% of guys in each fraternity.

 

[TheException]

No, the girls only go for like 10% of guys in each fraternity.

Its not just fraternities....its all of life. Id say even less than 10% of males in today's society are alpha males. Overwhelming majority are sniveling, supplicating beta males.

Its NOT "Only XYZ can get women" or only "STATUS AND REP"....thats called whining and crying because you lack success. Instead lace up your bootstraps and progress into your best self.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

These people are successful because they lucked up and were naturally placed in an environment that suited them. I for one hate my college and the region I have the misfortune of living in.

 

[TheException]

These people are successful because they lucked up and were naturally placed in an environment that suited them. I for one hate my college and the region I have the misfortune of living in.

Complete sh1t attitude^

Whether that is true or not you shouldnt be worrying about others. And not to turn this political but a good example is liberals....they are always worried about "how rich" someone else is and whether they have "too much" instead of worrying about themselves and their own income. You will never experience the success you want if continue to be envious of others and get angry that they "lucked up".

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Complete sh1t attitude^

Whether that is true or not you shouldnt be worrying about others. And not to turn this political but a good example is liberals....they are always worried about "how rich" someone else is and whether they have "too much" instead of worrying about themselves and their own income. You will never experience the success you want if continue to be envious of others and get angry that they "lucked up".

Most liberals are just butthurt about shvt like that. My parents are exactly like this, always complaining about rich people.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

How do I get rid of my awkwardness

 

[sylvester the cat]

How do I get rid of my awkwardness

shine a light on it.

 

[CrimsonPanther]

hey mate, sorry you feel that way.
but there is hope yet.

concentrate on yourself, go forward one step at a time and value even the smallest steps. do not look at others if you only look at them this way. you look at others only to have something to compare your misery to. try to look at others as motivation. as an illustration of where YOU can evolve.
some people have more luck in life, some people must work for everything.
i am from the latter type. but luckily i enjoy it. try to look at life as a game. challenges are there to be crushed and conquered.

if you aren't mentally or physically challenged, you already are ahead of many people. you are lucky.

be happy. happiness is not the destination, it is the way.

everyone gets opportunities in life. grab them and make the most of them.

as for girls, yes, for them status is very important, because they are like parasites. they don't want to build things, they just wanna enjoy things built by others (LUCKY FOR US) but status can be either gained or faked.

 

[Uncharted]

How do I get rid of my awkwardness

Fake it till you make it. Become non-awkward. Approach women CONSTANTLY. Not just to get phone numbers. To make conversation. That way when you see someone you like, it will be more natural.

 

[San]

Fake it till you make it. Become non-awkward. Approach women CONSTANTLY. Not just to get phone numbers. To make conversation. That way when you see someone you like, it will be more natural.

Fake it till you make it?! approach women constantly?! What a waste of precious time here on earth. You must have read alot of relationship books where they suggest this.. don't believe everything one says or everything you read.. that's exactly how chumps are created.. same as what's on television nowadays.. programmed to create faggots and pussies by imprinting bull**** in the minds of many man. Repeat a lie many many times it becomes the truth.

We don't have to fake.. we are men! Just be true and pure,
show your "true" self; all the best things in life happen without any effort. Either females will like/love you for it or not.. that way you\ll attract them naturally without putting on a mask or acting.. no need to waste valuable energy and time... unless you enjoy to put up an act for only to be "un-masked" later on.. A role is just that.. a role you play.. DARE TO BE REAL! and feel the force! or am i just acting? lol! carry on

 

[San]

Nonsense. Unless you have the looks and are a natural extrovert you'd better put some effort into the game.

I understand your perception.. and i guess i have the looks in that case.. obviously im talking from my perception... One's perception is never Nonsense or true in that sense.. it's just one viewpoint of the many..

i must admit.. enlightenment is rare here on earth.. yet it's the natural state of being.. enlightenment can only occur if there's total effortlessness.. and cannot be willed or forced.. everything in reality happens spontaneously. although we tend to believe it's "us" who make the choice... we're more like robots being controlled by the universe and it's force s

unfortunately some are so busy with women... they completely forget about what matter's most; understanding and realizing emptiness
(of thoughts) "personally" i love them! but they can be difficult yes, we'd have to put in some game if you want 'm... who's afraid of challenge?!

 

[JaegerPilot217]

that would probably explain why jocks in high school and college are able to get cute pretty girlfriends

 

[Jair213]

not all woman are the same and it depends witch girls you are aiming for. depends on location too.. i am hispanic so mexican chicks seemed to be more easy going tho!

back in highschool i remember through the 9th grade i was only atracting certain chicks, less good looking hb's before i joined the football team, i once tried saying hi to this one chick i knew since pre school(HB 9) and the bish straight told me ''dont be saying hi to me'' with a fvcked up attitude. another one that i said hi with a simple hand wave, and she straight gave me the middle finger.. lol

once i joined the football team and started to add muscle the other type of bishes started noticing witch were the hotter more shallow stuck up bishes.. didnt even give em the light of day.. funny how everyone would look at me that i sometimes still hanged out with the group of friends i still had ''the geeky looking dudes, and some fat ones'' ... anywho back to that one bish that straight told me off(the one that told me not to say hi to her) told me in one of our classes ''hey yesterday i went to the game to cheer for you'' in my mind i was dumbstruck.. i just said ''thanks'' to be polite.. its really fvcked tup how people could be...

all through HS tho i dated an HB 6.5 she was a good chick, loyal, really nice, took her virginity, i regret now for being a dumbasss and dumping her for a better looking girl that turn out to be BPD after HS... smh

 

[JaegerPilot217]

I'll say the hot cute pretty young girls have it the easiest because they usually just had to be born cute and pretty, they didn't have to earn their status, respect, confidence and all the other things guys have to have in order to be deemed masculine, boyfriend material