"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It is a "TEST"

memoza

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I saw it, think there are so many experienced guys on this forum, need help applied to my case:

Back ground: South Asian, in late forties, 90 % capricorn, serious, sesitive, have no experince of sysmatically dating, had 3 bad incidents of the same nature.

This time: 10-12 years younger Soth Asian woman/girl gave me her phone number, talked frankly, let me touch her hair, in the first meeting in a car.

After one week met again in car, talked some common things, once again she talked her hardship thru her husband and other personal stuff, let me touch her face, allowed my fingers to go through her hair and close touch to her hands, fore arm and shoulder, while talking. I was too fast and asked her let me kiss her eyes which she refused and promised to think about it and will let me know next time. we went away with the same gesture as it was.

After another 3 days, met her, talked a common stuff she wanted to hear and when I turned to her with the same gesture of last time, she showed a quite hesitation, did not allow me to go any further than hand touching. My bad, I reminded her about her as last promise, she rewfused and posed (at that time it looked true) to be tense and in hurry. I had to let her go and then I called her, she is not respnding well, she stop receiving me call as well.

To me it is clear, she is off my track for good. BUT I am interested in her to continue as I started. I am seeking experinced guidnace from u guys to get ti back.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It is not a test. She is plainly not romantically interested in you. FORGET HER AND MOVE ON LEST YOU BECOME HER GIRLY FRIEND UPON WHOM SHE DUMPS HER EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE.
 

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Originally posted by sapphire
It is not a test. She is plainly not romantically interested in you. FORGET HER AND MOVE ON LEST YOU BECOME HER GIRLY FRIEND UPON WHOM SHE DUMPS HER EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE.
Logically I understand and agree ... But inside me I feel a failure ...... may be it is ego problem. Feel defeated, and what not.. I want to retry with any proven method
 

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I sense desperation from the tone of your posts. Take time to read the DJ Bible.
 

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Originally posted by sapphire
I sense desperation from the tone of your posts. Take time to read the DJ Bible.


Thanks......... I am going to read...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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