It hurts, It hurts, It hurts

[girlsarecrazy]

This is the problem when I go out to a party or a social event without my girl and when she goes out by herself

If she acts pissed off, upset, and whine or act really curious and jealous: "I'm in don't worry babe, it's going to be fine" mode

If i act pissed off, upset, and whine or act really curious and jealous she turns into: "I think me might need time apart" mode.

I'm still fvcking and when she's with me she's all about me but when she goes out with her friends, she acts shady. I'm keeping her for social proof and sex until I find something better, but what the hell is my problem? I can't feel uneasy like this.

 

[Krassus]

What the hell is your problem? SHE is. Dump her. Don't "keep her around," because all that'll is undermind your character, confidence, etc.

 

[rocky_mtn]

If i act pissed off, upset, and whine or act really curious and jealous she turns into: "I think me might need time apart" mode.

Don't act pissed off, upset, jealous or whine. That's what women do. What good will come of you acting that way, none. The best way to take control is if g/f tries to make you jealous, don't get jealous, deal with her actions but don't play into it by letting her push you emotional buttons.

 

[MacDiddy]

You are feeding of her insecurities to elavate your need to be dominant and in control... you don't like it when she denies you that role...

But I reckon you're still young. immature.. correct me if I'm wrong..

 

[girlsarecrazy]

How else could i eliminate the uneasy feeling of depression that i get when she's acting this way when she goes out?

It's like a heartache feel where I can't fall asleep and eat.

I started out relationship in AFC mode so I've already made fallen too hard for her. I can't just NEXT her when she'll still want to fvck and make me happy when she's with me and not busy with her friends.

 

[Nighthawk]

'Some people take a beautiful girl and hide her away from the rest of the world. I want to be the one who walks in the sun, cos girls just wanna have fun.'

Cyndi Lauper, The 80s.

Jealousy is a weakness and a sign of insecurity.

 

[girlsarecrazy]

'Some people take a beautiful girl and hide her away from the rest of the world. I want to be the one who walks in the sun, cos girls just wanna have fun.'

Cyndi Lauper, The 80s.

Jealousy is a weakness and a sign of insecurity.

I'll just fvck her only. I won't listen to her when she calls me crying because her mommy won't let her do anything. That's what i'm thinking. I'll drop any boyfriend aspects of the relationship and just fvck her when she calls me. She will not fvck any other guys if she's not in a relationship with them. She doesn't sleep around at all. Although me and her have been unofficially together for the past 3 months. I've been fvcking her a lot. 1 day ago she screamed my name in bed, and had prolly the best sex ever. The day after, she's trying to act like she's over me for good. She's fooling herself. But I had enough. She's just a fvck buddy now.

 

[Nighthawk]

Good attitude. Pull back and she will probably pursue you, especially if you deliver in bed.

Next time do her against the wall, see how that works out.

 

[girlsarecrazy]

Good attitude. Pull back and she will probably pursue you, especially if you deliver in bed.

Next time do her against the wall, see how that works out.

I need suggestions on how to deal with her next phone call to me.

Here's where we stand as of right now (June 10th 10:45AM EST):
She bailed out on hanging out with me twice yesterday to go hang out with her friends. She called me trying to get alcohol, I told her no. She whined and complained and we ended the convo on bad terms. She called me back telling me sorry and she wanted to be on good terms with me.

I'm at a party. She's at another party that's supposed to be girls only. She calls me @ like 9pm, I ignore because I was mad still. I was assumed she'd call back later but she didn't. 10:30pm rolls around I call her up. She's answer the phone when she's in the middle of a conversation with someone asking her name... then she goes to me on the phone and says "ugh i gotta go." I said, "what is your problem? I'm trying to talk to you. Fine whatever bye" She calls me back and says sorry and starts talking to me. I'm starting to feel uneasy as I learn that there are dudes at this party. She orginally told me it was girls night only. Then i feel even more uneasy that she was crashing there. I showed my jealousy and asked her to call me later tonight. She asked why. I told her I had to go and I want you to call me later. She said, Oh.. i didn't know I had to. I say, "Fine don't call, I don't care Goodnight" and hung up. That was 11PM last night. I haven't talked to her since.

For the past 6 months there has not been a night where she hasn't called me or txt'd me a good night.

We've usually hung out 4-6 times a week too.

She hasn't called me to "break it off" with me. She is going to call me today. It's a gurantee. She'll call me either friendly like nothing happend asking me what i'm doing or she'll just call me and try to break things off.

How should I act and react to her phone call today?

I was thinking

A: to ignore until she blows up my phone
B: answer the phone with "I'm busy, what's up?" and cut the convo short
C: Talk it through normally and if she starts getting into the status of our relationship, just be like, "No i don't feel like talking about this right now"

Any ideas from the DJ crew?