It finally happened. Hooking up with an HB9.9

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

I am officially clean and sober for 2 months and I've been working really hard on my inner game and really getting my sh!t together. It's been paying off, and I'm noticing a significant increase in not only the amount of "forward" women but the overall quality of the women who have been hanging around me. I always dated 8s and maybe low 9s but the supermodel/swimsuit model girls (you know the ones) were still always slightly out of reach.


Well, now here I am:

I've known this girl from years ago, just sort of in passing, through friends.

She added me to facebook after seeing one of my live shows, recently, and we have been hanging out, and slowly getting to know each other and she is definitely interested in me. So far, no games or outward signs of issues but there are some definite red flags that have me proceeding with utmost caution.

This girl is a jaw dropping 9.9. When we walk down the street everyone looks. Perfect in every way.

How perfect? She is one of those premium "chat room" girls that does the whole video chats with horny guys the world over, for 5$ a minute. She's been very honest with me about what she does and I'm actually perfectly cool with it.

That is not what the deal breaker is, though I don;t know if she's the type Id bring home to the parents unless she was ready to get out of that whole scene and move on (which she is planning on doing, eventually).

The deal breaker is that she hasn't spoken to her parents in 10yrs. The "pay to peek" business she's in coupled with the fact that she was a military brat and now has totally disowned her parents (she cut them off, not the other way around) definitely has me on high alert.

Funny thing is, she seems so "together" and professional that I don't think she's damaged goods.

Needless to say, I'm on high alert. I've never been with a girl that looks this stunning, so I am proceeding with caution...extreme caution. Any signs of dysfunction and I'm out.

 

[Poonani Maker]

It wouldn't bother me if she's not seen her parents in 10 yrs or been in that profession. Of course, all I want to do is fvck. I could also care less about what my mother or father thought of my choice in women (they know anyway, the barriers of common decency have been tumbled between me and my parents with regards to girls I choose to bring around). My grandparents on the other hand, they're 90 and would have a heart-attack if I showed up with some of these girls. My cousins and aunts, brothers and uncles would think less of me too, but my parents ALWAYS separate me singularly from the women I choose to see. I'm lucky in that sense. They poured all their love and sense of freedom into me growing up, have always supported me no matter what. My parents are really amazing people.

 

[KarmaSutra]

I She's been very honest with me about what she does and I'm actually perfectly cool with it.

Porn slvt?

Are you picking up Sasha Grey?

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Porn slvt?

Are you picking up Sasha Grey?

No, this chick is hotter, IMO haha.

She doesn't do any hardcore porn with other people... just the video one on one chat stuff. I have no reason not to believe her until she proves otherwise. I don't care, really. it's all good.

It' such a bizarre experience, for me. She's got a great house, nice car, is very personable and actually very sweet and caring but then on the flip side she's into this whole weird scene that is just beyond me. She attends sex shows and such for the company she works for.

I guess I just always figured the girls who were in this sort of stuff always tended to be kind of "broken"... she's not letting any of that on, if she is... My guard's up but I'll be going after this, even if just for the thrill ride.

 

[Voice]

Just curious BACanadian, what do you think you are on a 1-10 scale in terms of looks? What do you think attracted her to you?

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Just curious BACanadian, what do you think you are on a 1-10 scale in terms of looks? What do you think attracted her to you?

It's funny to think about it, but if I had to put a number on my looks I'd say I'm an 8.5 to a 9. I'm good shape, have great features but I'm no supermodel, either.

I recently shaved my head and I get a lot of people asking me if I'm Daughtry, so you can get an idea of what I look like. I have a short, neatly trimmed beard/stuble and an eyebrow piercing and a labret piercing.

Not sure what attracted her, but it probably has a lot to do with the energy I've been giving off since I recently got sober. I'm very clear headed and out going. Always having fun and I also sing and play guitar, professionally so that always helps.

I'm also quite masculine. Broad shoulders and some people say I can be intimidating with how I carry myself. But, they are always surprised to see that I'm very friendly and personable.

We have a lot in common in our likes and dislikes and we're starting to hit it off.

If I end up spending some serious time with her, I'll probbaly eventually just ask her straight up why she wanted to go out with me. I'll come back and answer that question with some solid info. haha