"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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It feels so good to set a little CVNT straight!!!

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what part of "i had a free minute and dont give a **** about her" do u guys not understand? im not gonna watch what I say to her, and im not gonna care what i say or how i say it

i just loved telling her off, i think it was cute of her to actually show me thats shes offended, cuz she probly IS insecure as hell, and it was nice to bring it out of her

meanwhile, while some of you losers were replying to this thread calling me stupid and AFC, i met up with another girl for the 1st time and i got a handjob after hanging out for a while

do u guys have ANYTHING better to do than player hate? i told a bytch off, and i thought u woulda found it funny how easily that upset her, but GODDAMN i am not serious nor do i care about her ,there is no "DJ" way of doing what I did

the DJ way is to not analyze shyt and to live life by your own standards

my standard in this case was to be a total azzhole to her, and I did what I felt like

you pvssies, did you want me to "DJ" her and try to say the proper thing? Cuz you know, if I dont follow the bible, then of course I will forever burn in hell

some of you are REALLY messed up thinking that there is a set of rules you NEED to follow - WAKE THE FVCK UP
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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it makes it very easy to tell a bytch off when you already have 2 committed gf's by the way - maybe thats the part most of you are not understanding
 

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She flaked on you 4 times in 2 weeks. You should have nexted her along time ago. If they flake once fine. If they flake twice I say next them. If they flake three times than forget about it.

You should have just ignored her instead of telling her off. I prefer to stay cool and calm in those situations. Hurting someone with words that you never met is pretty immature. You didn't gain anything.
 

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lookyoung said:
She flaked on you 4 times in 2 weeks. You should have nexted her along time ago. If they flake once fine. If they flake twice I say next them. If they flake three times than forget about it.

You should have just ignored her instead of telling her off. I prefer to stay cool and calm in those situations. Hurting someone with words that you never met is pretty immature. You didn't gain anything.

thats the wrong mindset to have - why are you even following any kind of rules of what is mature and immature, do you live life by OTHER people's standards? walking on eggshells huh? u wanna make sure to handle it properly and not say anything wrong, thats the DJ way???

i honestly can do w/e i want with this, i can ignore it, i can apologize and see her and fvck her, i can write her a mean azzhole-like message, the whole POINT is that I am doing what i want, when i want it, how i want it, i dont need other people telling me whats right and what isnt, THAT is an AFC thing to do - to bend your rules and how u act based on what other people feel is "proper"
 

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come on guys, she stood him up 4 times! I mean she should have at least had the decency to tell him she is not interested, or even lie about hwy she can't make it.
And he kept coming back after the second. Perhaps he should give a reason for continuously putting his hand in fire after getting burned.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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thats the wrong mindset to have - why are you even following any kind of rules of what is mature and immature, do you live life by OTHER people's standards? walking on eggshells huh? u wanna make sure to handle it properly and not say anything wrong, thats the DJ way???

i honestly can do w/e i want with this, i can ignore it, i can apologize and see her and fvck her, i can write her a mean azzhole-like message, the whole POINT is that I am doing what i want, when i want it, how i want it, i dont need other people telling me whats right and what isnt, THAT is an AFC thing to do - to bend your rules and how u act based on what other people feel is "proper"
After the girl flaked on you 4 times what did you expect? Did you expect her at the 5th time to say come over I want u to fvck me up the azz. You had a 0% chance with this girl from the start yet continued to pursure her. And when you did what happened was expected to happen. Did you actually think that you still had a chance to bang her?

Carry yourself as the prize. You made it very obvious that you were being clingy. And girls hate clingly guys.

Let me explain to you what AFC is

1. Being clingy is AFC.
2. Getting flaked on 4 times yet coming back for more is AFC
3. You telling her off is AFC. Only woman get emotional like that. A man does not lose his cool around woman. Especially a woman who he never has met.


When you lose your cool you make yourself look like a woman and that is never cool.
 

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thats the wrong mindset to have - why are you even following any kind of rules of what is mature and immature, do you live life by OTHER people's standards? walking on eggshells huh? u wanna make sure to handle it properly and not say anything wrong, thats the DJ way???

i honestly can do w/e i want with this, i can ignore it, i can apologize and see her and fvck her, i can write her a mean azzhole-like message, the whole POINT is that I am doing what i want, when i want it, how i want it, i dont need other people telling me whats right and what isnt, THAT is an AFC thing to do - to bend your rules and how u act based on what other people feel is "proper"
That's B/S
 

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lookyoung said:
After the girl flaked on you 4 times what did you expect? Did you expect her at the 5th time to say come over I want u to fvck me up the azz. You had a 0% chance with this girl from the start yet continued to pursure her. And when you did what happened was expected to happen. Did you actually think that you still had a chance to bang her?

Carry yourself as the prize. You made it very obvious that you were being clingy. And girls hate clingly guys.

Let me explain to you what AFC is

1. Being clingy is AFC.
2. Getting flaked on 4 times yet coming back for more is AFC
3. You telling her off is AFC. Only woman get emotional like that. A man does not lose his cool around woman. Especially a woman who he never has met.


When you lose your cool you make yourself look like a woman and that is never cool.

I have had girls flake before many times, but eventually i ended up seeing them and fcuking them on the same night. There ARE no rules......if I get flaked on, I have backup plans anyway.......in fact, each of those 4 times, she WAS my backup plan haha
 

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what makes me an AFC? because I told a bytch off for fun while hooking up with another girl instead? I already have 2 consistent gf's and I see new pvssy all the time, me talking shyt to some dyke doesnt make me an AFC - you ladies are way way wayyyy too sensitive to how society asks you to behave
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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what makes me an AFC? because I told a bytch off for fun while hooking up with another girl instead? I already have 2 consistent gf's and I see new pvssy all the time, me talking shyt to some dyke doesnt make me an AFC - you ladies are way way wayyyy too sensitive to how society asks you to behave



Posting drunk again Skip?
 

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this site has so much playa hating that its amazing!!!

lets all praise guys who dont get pvssy and hate on all the ones who do!!!

go read your don juan bible bytches
 

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So, this girl flaked on you 4 times.. Why did you give her the other 3 chances to flake on you? Then, you got butt hurt and felt like you had to make fun of her to make you feel better. You should of moved on and ignored it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
So, this girl flaked on you 4 times.. Why did you give her the other 3 chances to flake on you? Then, you got butt hurt and felt like you had to make fun of her to make you feel better. You should of moved on and ignored it.

like i already said, i gave her the other 3 chances because each time she flaked, she was the backup option, + ive been seeing my other girls, plus i dont care and dont play by any rules
 
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like i already said, i gave her the other 3 chances because each time she flaked, she was the backup option, + ive been seeing my other girls, plus i dont care and dont play by any rules

The funniest part of this thread is that Skip thinks this woman cares about his email that insulted her. As soon as she blocked you she called up some guy who made her feel good again. He is probably pounding her right now while you are still on here b!tching.
 

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yes, I'm sure she called one of her simp-friends to bring her some chocolates ... and im sure he did lol
 
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I just want Skip to admit what he did was AFC instead of insulting everyone.

Face it, that email was AFC. Are you denying that fact?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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