"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Women like you or they don't like you!

If she doesn't like there is no opener in the world is going to help you!

People make emotional (subconscious) decisions instantly then make a rational (conscious) reason WHY they made the decision that was already made!

If you are confident enough AND a woman likes you, you can use a neg, or any other thing in the world and you will leave with a number!

If you are not confident AND a woman likes you you can use a neg or any other thing in the world and you will leave with a number!

If you are confident AND a woman Don't like you you can use a neg, or any other thing in the world and you will leave without a number (or a number and no call back)!

If you aren't confident enough AND a woman don't like you you can use a neg, or any other thing in the world and you will leave without a number!

The type of person you are attracts the type of women who are attracted to the type of person you are no matter what you are!

Every type of MAN on the face of the earth can attract women, there are personality types for every personality type that exist!

You don't become a snappy dresser, and confident to attract women, you do it to attract a certain type of woman!

Sex/women is a city that has a million different roads to get to it! Find out the road that YOU are MOST comfortable traveling on and take that road the best way you possibly can!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The type of person you are attracts the type of women who are attracted to the type of person you are no matter what you are!


Do you mean phyisically?

How would I find out what kind of girls are attracted to me, physically, bcuz not that many girls smile or make eye contact with me or maybe I dont notice.

Is there much I can do to attract a type or class of girls that normally wouldnt look at a guy like me, I live in nyc and I see these blond hotties all dressed up chic, based on looks and race ALONE, they wouldnt go for me, which makes my job hard.

Im not sure if the girls that are attracted to me now!, if I would be attracted to them. THats the problem
 
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you're missing the point. To change her impression of you, you must work on YOU, not her. Sure, some things help sway it in your favour a little, but mostly its down to you to scrub yourself up, work on your personality to give yourself the maximum possible chance of her liking you.
 
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Either she's a attracted or not right from sight alone. With women, it can be any little thing coupled with a personality they like is enough. For example, a guy they don't find all that hot but has a great nose and is complete romantic. For some girls, this is the goods. For others it can be different. Imagine all the variables involved based on genetics and upbringing. This alone should tell you that you're as good as any when it comes to getting a girl you like.
 
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Originally posted by tmpgstx
Either she's a attracted or not right from sight alone. With women, it can be any little thing coupled with a personality they like is enough. For example, a guy they don't find all that hot but has a great nose and is complete romantic. For some girls, this is the goods. For others it can be different. Imagine all the variables involved based on genetics and upbringing. This alone should tell you that you're as good as any when it comes to getting a girl you like.
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First impression is always key. Once you muck that up, you may as well just throw in the towel and leave.

On a cold approach, first impression is everything. So, when doing a CA, you've simply got to play to your strenghts? If you've got looks, by all means get dressed to the 9s and go sarging straight up in clubs.

If you look like a troll (or, in my case, a giant) but have a great personality, sarge in places that allow you to display your personality very quickly to give your target something else to find attractive outside of physical appearence.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by lebRambo
you're missing the point. To change her impression of you, you must work on YOU, not her. Sure, some things help sway it in your favour a little, but mostly its down to you to scrub yourself up, work on your personality to give yourself the maximum possible chance of her liking you.
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exactly.

honestly, I'm not liking this post (I'm talking about the thread starter) like that last one...I think you need to get out in the field more...the field of life

here's what i know from first-hand experience, in the past 10 days or so...

> i have not bulked or changed anything in my physical appearance...got it?
> so why the fcuk have more women hit on me and approached me in the last 10 days alone than have ever in possibly the last several months?

> still there? well...i'm the same person...the way you explain it, you are basically saying rely on what she thinks alone, and if you are screwed now...confident or unconfident, you will practically get nowhere, so don't try

...imo, bad advice to give people looking for hope...true, some will never make it, but not because of their physical qualities ...yes, looks matter, but to an extent

imo, i think i am good looking...hotornot gave me an 8.5-8.6, and i posted several pics, each time i got this after around 500+ votes ...so i'm not ugly ...but until you can be an interesting person, you will not truly tap into that physical attractiveness

it is more mental than you think

anyway, point being, you have more control over it than you think...myself being a prime example...i boosted my personality, started getting a life, and now cuter girls will just open me

be interesting, that is the key
 
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