"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It all seems so futile

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God, just about every guy in the bar is with a girl, sometimes two or more. Seems like every guy walking around in the sun is with a cute girl wearing a short skirt. I feel like crap. I'm not bad looking. I'm interesting. Why can't I find even a pudgy girl to make 'mine'? Ahhh, this is so frustrating sometimes :(
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Because you seem to be trying to hard, doesnt make sense does it? Doesnt to me brother, but thats how it goes. Always put your hobbies first, create a social circle, focus on your goals, you are the prize remember. Women should flock for you, once you get in that mind set nothing is stopping you. Infact i want you to look in the mirror and affirm that 'you are the prize' because once you believe you are, your body follows, your brain leads and your attitude dances.

-Dodgeball
 
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Dodgeball said:
Because you seem to be trying to hard, doesnt make sense does it? Doesnt to me brother, but thats how it goes. Always put your hobbies first, create a social circle, focus on your goals, you are the prize remember. Women should flock for you, once you get in that mind set nothing is stopping you. Infact i want you to look in the mirror and affirm that 'you are the prize' because once you believe you are, your body follows, your brain leads and your attitude dances.

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Precisly. The world isn't split into winners who can get girls and losers that can't. Focus on other stuff, and I assure you, the guys with the hottest girls (like my best mate) don't enjoy every single second of it.
Sure, it's crap that you've never had a woman (i went through it), but it's not the be all and end all.
 
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God, just about every guy in the bar is with a girl, sometimes two or more. Seems like every guy walking around in the sun is with a cute girl wearing a short skirt. I feel like crap. I'm not bad looking. I'm interesting. Why can't I find even a pudgy girl to make 'mine'? Ahhh, this is so frustrating sometimes :(
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Biggest thing that would help is to study guys who seem to pull the hot chicks and see what it is that works. You need to be thinking about different, creative ways to improve your situation.

Rather than spending a few moments whining on the forum, you should have made a couple random approaches!
 
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You are only noticeing the couples.....trust me there are plenty of single girls. You may be coming across too needy. Follow the rules of this site to the dot and you should have no problem gaining success.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm not trying to feel sorry for myself...I am actively going otu and sarging. As far as feeling needy, I'm pretty sure I'm not giving that impression to girls. True I have been escalating kino but thats in line with this site's guidelines.

The most frustrating part is this, way back when I was a WBAFC and never been on a date, it was like, it was all out of reach. All like going to the moon or something, something I would never do. Now that I can talk to girls, get #s, go on dates occasionally, it's SO FRUSTRATING that I cant get to the next step, i.e. sex or a relationship.
 
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