Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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it all comes down to MONEY, guys.

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With a secure income in 6 figures, if you know what to do, the world is your oyster and there are ways to start with nothing and have that income (while doing very little work yourself) in 3-4 years. :) For instance, if you have nothing but your health and time, you can hire on with Sneider trucking. If you will contract with them to drive for nobody but them for a year, they will pay for the (4k) 18 wheeler school. Then they will work your butt off for a year, paying you 50k gross instead of the 70k that they'd have to be pay an experienced driver. You'll clear 35k, and if you save nearly all of that and know what to do, you can buy your own (used) truck and trailer.

If you know how to get the right co-driver, you can clear 80 the next year, and use that to buy 2 more trucks and put male-female driving teams in them. Each truck will clear 40k per year for you, if you know what to do with it. Now you are clearing 120k a year and all you have to do is occasionally monitor the truck's actions on your laptop, and arrange for loads, like 6 loads per week, as all 3 trucks x the US both ways in a week. Next year, buy 2-3 more trucks, and so on.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sure it does, money buys the free TIME you need to do everything else, learn whatever else you need to know, protect your health, find a lover, raise your kids properly, etc.
 

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Saddly Money is the root to happiness, and evil at the same time.....
Money is everything, because how many broke dudes do you see happy?
All the broke people i know sweep the fact that they are broke under the rug, but i will tell you one thing...broke dudes get women, broke dudes live life.

Sometimes man it's not about the money one obtains...but the knowledge you have in your mind.
 

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If you're a sh*tty, lazy and ineffective person money won't ever solve that.

Money helps but it's not the root of anything.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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