"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It ain't too bad being an AFC

sherineo

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It ain't too bad being an AFC...

I mean it only depends on how badly you take it...
In my AFC days my ego was so huge, I used to get so defensive , I was so afraid of rejection, I was such a pessimistic that being an AFC was like end of the world for me when I found this fact out....

But now I just laugh at all those instances ...which i used to take tooo seriously...

I mean if you make a movie about me it'll make a pretty neat comedy flick like american pie or something....

May be I'm watching too many comedy movies ...but it's gud way to look at world....

I mean watch "40 year old virgin" it's all too funny ....:D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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j0n024

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40 yr old virgin wasnt that good....I mean it was all just profane potty jokes, I mean I could barely follow it and the only good thing about the movie was the daughter...I mean I would tap that in a hearbeat lol. But it does seem to me that you are on the right path and that you shouldn't care what other people think of you as long as you think of yourself highly...because at the end of the day what do we have but our own thoughts and ideals.
 
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