"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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issue with showing attraction after hookup

kiz

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so i'll meet a girl and get very high IOI's from her and sometimes we hook-up/have sex/whatever, but the next time i see them, for some reason i think in my mind oh i got her, that's over. yet, i still want to continue things with these girls. i guess i dont know what to do in terms of a second meetup so i forget about it.

how can i arrange second meetups easily and keep interest high while showing that im still interested? i feel like calling the next day or whatever is too much.

NOTE: all this is taking place on a college campus approx. 2,500 students
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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kiz

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bump, i could use some help or just a few quick words of advice.
 

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If you want a second meeting just call and ask for a second meeting. if she isn't interested she will simply say no. But why are you acting like you haven't had sex with her when you already have. Call her and simply hang out, relax, and let her chase you now!
 
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