"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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issue with female co-worker. incredibly stupid.

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we were working and all of a suddent she feels a rubber band land on the side of her face. i was on that side too no one else but it wasnt me who sling shot it at her. she suspected it was me and still thinks it was me.

anyways she knows i weight lift, and before we have talk about medical issues also once and i told her that i always suffer from high testoterone levels she knows this due to the subject we were talking about anyways..

she seems a bit pissy. i tell her it wasnt me. period. we go home. work ends. she leaves butt hurt with this sadness on her face. really upset.

then she posts this on her facebook.

''the one thing that makes a women fall in love with a man is not hes muscular body nor hes high testoterone levels, but hes tender sweetness and kindness respect for her.''

..

she clearly finds me atractive, she probably even likes me..

note - this chick is married. lol and she steel flirts with me and makes heavy eye contact with me as if i make her melt.

anyways, that update just blew me away why would she even reffered to me in that way indirectly? wtf? lmfao

i message her on facebook and tell her ''thats ****ed tup that you put the blame on me''

she still hasnt responded. how do i handle this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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that watt i thought too, but i want to keep things cool though. since its at work u know.

eitherway that update of her's just made think she's really something else LOL dont even know watt to make of it.

im thinking of even liking it to get on her nerves or something lol
 

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Jair213 said:
im thinking of even liking it to get on her nerves or something lol
lol get a hobby instead of facecrap.

oh what did you do last weekend? i went buggy racing and motorboated some titties. what did you do?

i spent time on facecrap.

stop using facecrap.
 
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