"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Issue with a girl

XSilverStarboyX

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Ok, theres a girl I used to be in love with. I screwed things up and made her uncomfortable. I apologized and I said I just wanted to be friends. Well At school, Im the coolest thing in the world. When I ask her to hang out, she tells me she will ask her mom. Well I ask her the next day if she found out, no answer. I give it one more day then she makes up some excuse not to do it. I HATE being lied to and I HATE people who are friends with me out of sympathy. I want to know what gives, but I want to approach it without blowing up on her. I want to know, if something I do bothers her, she should just tell me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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six-foot AZN '05

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Dude I hate to break this to you, but she thinks that she has you trained like a dog. You broke one very sacred rule of DJism: apologizing for your testosterone. By admitting that you are brainwashed by the feminist society completely destroyed her attraction for you.

What to do?

1. Forget about her -or-
2. Take the power from her by acting aloof, seeing other girls, and "being the coolest thing in the world." :)
 

XSilverStarboyX

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six-foot AZN '05 said:
Dude I hate to break this to you, but she thinks that she has you trained like a dog. You broke one very sacred rule of DJism: apologizing for your testosterone. By admitting that you are brainwashed by the feminist society completely destroyed her attraction for you.

What to do?

1. Forget about her -or-
2. Take the power from her by acting aloof, seeing other girls, and "being the coolest thing in the world." :)
Why is apologizing for testostarone bad?
 

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Because it says that you are ashamed of what you are. This chick is a lesson in the past. Move on and learn from it.

And the next time a chick tells you 'let me ask my mom' just walk away please.
 

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I agree with LikRetsam

also wanted to add, when any girl throws any form of comment that's like "let me ask my mom" is the perfect time to throw in some ****y funny...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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XSilverStarboyX

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SMP said:
I agree with LikRetsam

also wanted to add, when any girl throws any form of comment that's like "let me ask my mom" is the perfect time to throw in some ****y funny...
I dont know how this sounds. When she said it I said, "She can come to for all I care". Or how about. I wanted to hang out with you, not your mom
 

XSilverStarboyX

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LikRetsam said:
Because it says that you are ashamed of what you are. This chick is a lesson in the past. Move on and learn from it.

And the next time a chick tells you 'let me ask my mom' just walk away please.
Ill remember that
 

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Bang her mom. I'm not kidding.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hmmm. just be cool, whatever she says, or the answers she gives u. If u see that she starts making up stories, NEXT her.
 
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