"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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XSilverStarboyX

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Ok, theres a girl I used to be in love with. I screwed things up and made her uncomfortable. I apologized and I said I just wanted to be friends. Well At school, Im the coolest thing in the world. When I ask her to hang out, she tells me she will ask her mom. Well I ask her the next day if she found out, no answer. I give it one more day then she makes up some excuse not to do it. I HATE being lied to and I HATE people who are friends with me out of sympathy. I want to know what gives, but I want to approach it without blowing up on her. I want to know, if something I do bothers her, she should just tell me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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six-foot AZN '05

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Dude I hate to break this to you, but she thinks that she has you trained like a dog. You broke one very sacred rule of DJism: apologizing for your testosterone. By admitting that you are brainwashed by the feminist society completely destroyed her attraction for you.

What to do?

1. Forget about her -or-
2. Take the power from her by acting aloof, seeing other girls, and "being the coolest thing in the world." :)
 

XSilverStarboyX

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six-foot AZN '05 said:
Dude I hate to break this to you, but she thinks that she has you trained like a dog. You broke one very sacred rule of DJism: apologizing for your testosterone. By admitting that you are brainwashed by the feminist society completely destroyed her attraction for you.

What to do?

1. Forget about her -or-
2. Take the power from her by acting aloof, seeing other girls, and "being the coolest thing in the world." :)
Why is apologizing for testostarone bad?
 

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Because it says that you are ashamed of what you are. This chick is a lesson in the past. Move on and learn from it.

And the next time a chick tells you 'let me ask my mom' just walk away please.
 

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I agree with LikRetsam

also wanted to add, when any girl throws any form of comment that's like "let me ask my mom" is the perfect time to throw in some ****y funny...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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XSilverStarboyX

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SMP said:
I agree with LikRetsam

also wanted to add, when any girl throws any form of comment that's like "let me ask my mom" is the perfect time to throw in some ****y funny...
I dont know how this sounds. When she said it I said, "She can come to for all I care". Or how about. I wanted to hang out with you, not your mom
 

XSilverStarboyX

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LikRetsam said:
Because it says that you are ashamed of what you are. This chick is a lesson in the past. Move on and learn from it.

And the next time a chick tells you 'let me ask my mom' just walk away please.
Ill remember that
 

The Real Ice Man

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Bang her mom. I'm not kidding.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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shydude

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Hmmm. just be cool, whatever she says, or the answers she gives u. If u see that she starts making up stories, NEXT her.
 
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