"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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issue in class then getting #

Ambience420.

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alright, so heres the thing... im 16 and theres this new chick in my class, shes pretty cool, i can see that guys are trying to stake out their claim on her but, im gonna try and see that that doesnt happen. Well our conversations are good, and i can tell she's into me, and if i asked for her # i'd probably get it. So heres the probablem -- once i get her # and call her up.. i have almost absolutely nothing to say and it feels so unnatural and i dont really know how to act.. any advice?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DonJuansHomeboy

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I suggest you get a friend to tell you what to say on the internet while you're talking to her. Or you could have them on the other line.
 

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Do you think the reason is because you get nervous over the phone? If so, I don't take credit for this idea, but it sounds like it would work.
Call up all of your old friends, the ones you havent talked to in the longest time.
Get a phonebook and randomly call people.
 

ramblinman888

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call her up ask her how her day was, ask some questions (as much as feels good), and tell her you want to get together. once you have the details, say good bye and hang up, done deal.
 
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