"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Isolating the target

Cockynfunny

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IN NEED OF HELP.

Basically this girl always hangs out with her friends....

Question: how can I get her to talk to me one on one at school?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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keepitirie

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****y, start checking your personal messages.. i sent you one before.. and i was about to send you another one about this one cuz this cant be answered in one post... posts are limited.

you need to tell more about the logistics. do you have classes with her? are there any times you see her alone? does this girl have mental issues?(has problems with being by herself) do you know any of her friends? (are you friends with them, not just know them.) there are harder ways, but their are easier ways. you have to elaborate
 

Analyzeit

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no you don't lol

Gaming is not about logistics and isolating is part of the game

Just wait, take the opportunities when they come.

or who cares when she's with her group of friends it shows confidence.
 
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