"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
isolating in high school
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Five To One
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Give us an example of a situation you find yourself in.
Like say are you with your social circle, a mix of guys and girls, and you cant figure out how to get that one girl alone... or when hanging out with a girl one on one... or is it a classic date like going to the movies... or is it at a drinking/not drinking party.
Be a bit more specific and you will get some good replies.
But im glad your asking about isolating, many guys neglect to learn the dos and donts of isolating a girl.
Its not just another tool in your box that you will use every once in a while, its the keystone to your success, you use it every single time, and if you stumble on isolating, you fail with the girl.
Like say are you with your social circle, a mix of guys and girls, and you cant figure out how to get that one girl alone... or when hanging out with a girl one on one... or is it a classic date like going to the movies... or is it at a drinking/not drinking party.
Be a bit more specific and you will get some good replies.
But im glad your asking about isolating, many guys neglect to learn the dos and donts of isolating a girl.
Its not just another tool in your box that you will use every once in a while, its the keystone to your success, you use it every single time, and if you stumble on isolating, you fail with the girl.
dj_jazzybrad
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In that case would you mind elaborating a little more? Good techniques for isolating, the do's and don'ts, etcFive To One said:Give us an example of a situation you find yourself in.
Like say are you with your social circle, a mix of guys and girls, and you cant figure out how to get that one girl alone... or when hanging out with a girl one on one... or is it a classic date like going to the movies... or is it at a drinking/not drinking party.
Be a bit more specific and you will get some good replies.
But im glad your asking about isolating, many guys neglect to learn the dos and donts of isolating a girl.
Its not just another tool in your box that you will use every once in a while, its the keystone to your success, you use it every single time, and if you stumble on isolating, you fail with the girl.
Five To One
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It takes good common sense and practice.dj_jazzybrad said:In that case would you mind elaborating a little more? Good techniques for isolating, the do's and don'ts, etc
There are times when its appropriate and when its not. Even if the girl wants to hook up with you there are bad times you can attempt to isolate her---the end result is her saying no and your image damaged. Hopefully you can try again later but some times she is turned off for good.
A bad time would be when she is having fun with the rest of the group. She may want to freak with you but right now she is enjoying everyone's company.
A bad time would be when you dont have a proper sex location, theres no point in asking the girl to come with you if you dont have any idea where to go. A buddy's bedroom is always ideal when your in high school.
A bad time is when you dont give her a good enough excuse to leave the group. She doesnt want to make it completely obvious what she is about to do. Depending on the situation you need to come up with a legit reason to lead her away. If your at a party with drinking then its very easy, "hey come with me", is all it takes. If your just hanging out with your social circle, watching tv or whatever, and you try to isolate the girl with that same line, she and everyone else will be thinking "wtf is he doing?" You need to come up with a legit reason to get a few minutes alone with her.
When she is at a party with a close girl friend would be a very bad time to isolate. First of all she wont want to leave her friend by herself and second of all her friend will try c0ckblock the sh1t out of you.---bad time to try to isolate
Like I said, most if it is commen sense. If its not commen sense right now then with experience it will be commen sense to you. Because even if she wants you badly there are inappropriate times to isolate.
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Okay so now you have successfully isolated this girl, most of the times in a bedroom. The worse thing you could possibly do now is freeze up and make small talk with her. Almost immediately make a move on her after isolating Dont overthink it. She knows whats going on and wants it to happen so just do whats natural and kiss her.
Nothing will kill a girls attraction for you faster than having the balls to isolate but not the balls to kiss her.
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Keep in mind time restraints and other variables. If she has a curfew in 20 or 30 minutes then theres not much point in trying to get her clothes off. Just keep it to making out and keep some mystery for next time.
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The bottem line is be smart about it, think from her point of view for a second before deciding if its a good time. But dont b1tch out. Its easy to freeze up. Its scarey at times but always exciting. Just remember that guys do it all the time. Well atleast the naturals do. Let that be your modivation. If hundreds of guys are getting pvssy tonight then so can you. So make it happen.