“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Isolating her friend

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I have this case scenario:

My friend's GF occasionally tags along her female friend whom i'm interested in to our social gatherings. These two girls are best friends and are inseparable. They like having private convos a lot. So I don't get to talk to her very often. I did get to talk to her recently while I was very buzzed. I think I showed moderate interest, and we had good EC and body language. I haven't talked to her since (i'm kicking myself in the nuts for not getting her # that night). However, it's really hard for me to isolate her at our parties since she's always talking to my bud's GF. Also the fact that she's really shy doesn't help me. Suggestions would be much appreciated.

* This is by no means a one-itis, i'm just being opportunistic here since I don't really have time at the moment to actively look for ho's.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It may seem like you need some formula/plan but the best option is to be a smooth mover - have ****laods of fun at your next party, make sure you say hello to her aswell as touching her the first time you see her and keep nudging her gently if you walk past her and giving her suggestive looks. If she reacts/flirts/does the same to you a bit later, give a big smile, grab her hand march her OUTSIDE (Its not a room - so theres no fear of rape or something?) and french-kiss her without saying a word...

If you read the signs rite she'l kiss you back and you can go from there ... unless shes not much of a smooth mover inwhich case she'l proably choke on her toungue as she probably wont be expecting a snog to be the first thing comming out of your mouth.

This approach = spontinaity, daring, confidence 'sweeping her off her feet'. Everything you need.

No need to worry about conversation fizzeling out/going off track or her having no idea what you want...the initial thril of being 'forcefully'(not realy forcefull - but its not expected) taken by someone else should give her that rush of excitement that should mean she wont back away or realy have a chance to think - this gives maximum effect.

**alternativly** get your buddys girlfriend to tell her that you'd be amazing in bed and that she has to go out with you cos you taught her BF everything he knows. This one works very well - if they think your a sex god they have to live up to your expectations - no need for them to worry that you wont live up theirs so they wont even think of that while their doing their best lapdancer impression butt naked. (wouldnt hurt to have her think think this anyway)

My advice once again - make sure sex plays a bit part in why she wants to be with you...otherwise you may well be stuck in the 'i have a boyfriend to listne while i incessantly wag on about how much i hate my life and friends and everybody.' pile.

(which sucks but is sometimes necessary...dont suggest soloutions....just nod and be sympathetic, your advice just adds another layer of confusion and you wont be thanked for it.)

Let me know how it goes dude, rock her socks off - and if she doesnt bite..."what a retard!" (is what everyone will think of her.)

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Man, the girl you wanna take out of the scene is YOUR FRIEND's GIRLFRIEND!! So just ask him to do that for you!! Ask him to tell his girlfriend that he wants to screw her, and they will will leave you with the girl.
 

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1) Know her friend well (ask your friend to tell you a bit about her)

2) Show your value to your friend's girl (without trying to hit her)

3) You now have the most effective marketing services are your disposal.
 

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Originally posted by Trance
Man, the girl you wanna take out of the scene is YOUR FRIEND's GIRLFRIEND!! So just ask him to do that for you!! Ask him to tell his girlfriend that he wants to screw her, and they will will leave you with the girl.
Not my friend's GF. My friend's GF's friend.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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