Isolate escalate guys! Or this will happen !

[Skyline]

Always isolate and escalate...

Today in my physical education class, something happened that i never thought would happen in a casual high school scenario.

We were in the gym playing volleyball. There was this hb8 who transferred into my class about a week ago that i just noticed yesterday. She always sat alone, and it wasnt till i went to get the ball that i noticed her.

When i approached i was like hey, come serve the ball. She basically said she didnt know how etc and after me taking her hand,to like get up, she said she promised to do it tomorrow. I said she better with a smile and went off playing.

She was smiling while i was telling her to serve by the way.

Now today, she was sitting there again. I wanted to shoot some hoops so i eventually go over there and tell her to serve. Makes up an excuse on how its a basketball so i smile and go and get a volleyball.

I come back and put my hand on her shoulder and the ball in her lap. After some "not being able to serve" talk she serves. She was still smiling and stuff.
I then ask for her name and she asks for mine and small talk ensues.


My other female friend (whom i kino etc) comes along and sits with me. I was like okay no big deal shes a girl that looks good. She points out her nose stud and i end up to touching it and saying that i like nose studs. She tells me shes single by the way.

Heres where the whole f*cking army appears.

Shortly after my female friend sat down, this other guy i sort of know sits next to her. And then his friend sits next to him. Then eventually this other tall guy who has better social skills than i comes along and starts talking to the hb8. Then his weird super senior friend shows up with him. Then this jocky foreign kid whom i think is jealous of me shows up and sits in front of her. Then eventually this quiet foreign black guy shows up and sits next to the weird kid.

I didnt realize what was happening... But what the fvck...

Im sort of bad at small talk and approaching but this was good experience especially since i got some kino.

The tall kid basically starts talking to her and takes control. I respect his social game(since im working on it at the time) but i dont respect the swarm of ****s when i had the balls to approach an hb:8.

So i eventually get up and return to shooting some hoops.

After class ends, i was like okay ill get her number. So i leave the gym and i see her and the black guy with their phones out. I come up and was like whats up, she tells me about some "phone troubles" and i look at the black guy and i sort of guessed she turned down him asking for her number from the look he had. He has some balls ill give him that.

Again, once i come. 3-4 other people show up. The tall guy, weird kid, black guy, foreign one, and my female friend. I dont mind my female friend showing up but all the ****s made me realize they all wanted her which made me disinterested for some reason and the tall guy was already running his mouth and she ended up walking with him to their next class.

After this happened, i realized i should of isolated and then escalated once the ****s starting showing up...

I had a Very good lesson learned. Even if i get friend zoned i know she has hot friends. Plus, i was doing two things that no one else was.

Kino and briefly looking at her lips(She was receptive on that).

 

[devilkingx2]

sometimes life ****blocks you without remorse.

 

[Skyline]

sometimes life ****blocks you without remorse.

It was still good practice haha

 

[zinc4]

Guys who are naturally very social or the popular kids in HS or college will always have a leg up in these social situations unless you really have good game or are just super good looking. For all the value that people place on looks here which is true, social status and ability will trump that almost every time provided the guy is at least decent looking.

Why do you think frat guys get all the hot sorority girls...it certainly isn't because of their looks...its status and social connections.....even ugly frat guys can score some of the best looking girls on campus with relative ease provided they are in a popular frat.

 

[TheGambino]

sometimes life ****blocks you without remorse.

true that

 

[Skyline]

Guys who are naturally very social or the popular kids in HS or college will always have a leg up in these social situations unless you really have good game or are just super good looking. For all the value that people place on looks here which is true, social status and ability will trump that almost every time provided the guy is at least decent looking.

Why do you think frat guys get all the hot sorority girls...it certainly isn't because of their looks...its status and social connections.....even ugly frat guys can score some of the best looking girls on campus with relative ease provided they are in a popular frat.

I understand that aspect completely. This tall kid didnt know her and he isnt nearly as built as i am or did any DJ techniques that i did. He just had good social skills.

He pretty much sh*t on me in the talking part though since i mainly escalate with actions since im sort of an introvert. However as for attraction goes, i think i did a better job than anyone there.

 

[dasein]

You will find this to be an issue your whole dating life when you have good social skills. Lots of it with nonfriends can't be controlled and just let it roll off the back, break ice with a woman or a group of them, and let the "parade of the encroaching c-b worms" begin (and that's exactly what they are, worms). There are tactics to defuse this kind of worming c-b. But once you find yourself in friendships with guys who are always worming you or even doing it subtly behind your back with women you are dating, seem to never have your interests in mind only theirs, you have to dump those friends pronto. Seek out friends who will have your back and help you, who take turns with opportunities, ditch the rest.

If it's any consolation, IME these are the guys who end up in the worst imaginable marriages/relationships and multidivorced in time. No conclusive reason why, just seems to end up that way.

 

[Big Nuts]

You experienced hypergamy in action in a tiny case study. She was sorting out the best male as if looking for an ace in a deck of cards.

Valuable lesson....remedy? Be better than the other males....Looks? Money? Fame? Game....keep working on being the best you can be and women will eventually follow naturally.

 

[Skyline]

Dasein that really sucks. I never knew these "worms" even existed. I didnt know any of these guys; they were more of brief acquaintances.

But im sure none of this would of have happened if isolated her as soon as these worms starting appearing.

You experienced hypergamy in action in a tiny case study. She was sorting out the best male as if looking for an ace in a deck of cards.

Valuable lesson....remedy? Be better than the other males....Looks? Money? Fame? Game....keep working on being the best you can be and women will eventually follow naturally.

Yes im always finding ways to improve. Wouldnt have approached her a few months ago.

All those other guys are irrelevant and If all the tall kid is gonna do is talk, he wont get anywhere.
I feel as if i had the upper hand in that encounter for some reason.