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Isn't the club the craziest place on earth?

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I think most guys are too testestorone driven to realize how funny the club is.

I get a great laugh every time I go.

When I walk in the club, I see these groups of people...

A) The Muggers

The guys who think they are soooo cool, that they can walk in the club, not dance, not talk to anyone, look pissed off the entire night, and wonder why everyone scapmers away from them. Why would I want to talk to someone who looks like he might pull out a gun and shoot me for looking at him.

These are the guys that sit in the middle of the dance floor, keyword being DANCE, and just sit there, starring at everyone, like they are just THAT damn cool.

Then, when they all get in the care, because they always travel in bunches (I have a theory about that, will get to in a sec), they all say the same thing.. "man, there aren't any girls here". Then when the fattest warhog looks at them one time, they swear she is the finest girl on earth.



B) The Attention sluts

These are the women.. who go to clubs, get on the dance floor, with thier skrits and heels and tight shirts and makeup done and get PISSED when guys approach them.

WTF? Damn *****, if you don't want to get approached, LEAVE. you can't get mad at a guy approaching you at a club or a bar, that's like getting mad at a stripper at a strip club asking you if you want a lap dance.

In the same group, the 3-5 groups of girls that get together, in a tight cirlcle, becuase none of them can actually dance, and "dance" with each other.. like they would dance with a guy.


C) Loser Women

These are the girls that have to go out EVERY Week.. it seems like every time you deicde to go out, you know beforehand, you are going to see certain people there, even if you don't know them, you see them aruond. Every town has them. To me, these are the saddest of the groups, as I see what most guys don't. Decent, even attractive women, who realize their lives aren't **** and are always trying to escape. You can always tell it's them because when they go out they get pissy drunk as possible, and when you talk to them, even in the day time, the only thing they can talk about is clubbing or getting drunk.

They crave, literaly can't function without the attention they get from guys when they go out.

If you ever want to get some very eazy ass, if you can spot one of them, just give her a small bit of attention and leave her alone for the rest of the night. Either that night, or the next time you see her, she will more times than not try to rape you... not because she likes YOU, she has to justify herself in your eyes.. that's what it's all about.. but hey, she had to take it up the ass to get it.



The reason I say all of it's funny is because, they all use the club to feel the same need

ATTENTION FROM THE OPPOSITE SEX.

They do this so much, they forget how to be themselves. To them, going out isn't even fun anymore, at least most of them.

I had a girl with me that got so ****ed up one night, I had to take her to the hosptial.. needless to say I was pissed.. that made me take a closer look at her and opened my eyes to different types of personalities.. remember, I'm just 22, and I was 21 at the time.



Needless to say, I am happy to say, I am nothing like any one of these people.

If you crave attention from the opposite sex, not sex itself, but the attention, big difference, then you don't need to ask yourself, where can I get attention, but, WHY do I feel I need to valited by a woman, because in all honestly that's what it comes down to.

A poster PM'ed me a week ago and asked me a question about what was the most difficult thing I had to overcome in the last 2 years.

the first thing that came to mind was my old oneitis, and rightfully so.

But as I thought about it, and I even knew it then... as good looking as she was, even when she LJBF'ed me, I can honestly say, I knew she was ****ed up then in the head, I just NEEDED then attention, as little as it was, that she gave to me.

the biggest hurdle in my last 2 years, because I LOVE women, I LOVE sex, was to find other things to LOVE doing. Where I could be to the point on a friday night where I felt 150% comfortable sitting at home BY CHOICE watching a movie BY MYSELF, because that's what I want to do, and not feel like I am missing anything.

When you get to the point, where you like women, not becuase you have to feel a need in your life, but because, they genuinly interst you, your game will skyrocket.

When I do go to the club, which isn't that often anymore, but enough, I am always happy. I mean, I have alot to be happy about in general, but I mean, I always walk around with a smile on my face, I dance, even by myself if I want to, because I am not there for thoose skanks, I"m there to have fun.

If I see a girl dancing, I dance with her.... that's if she can dance.. I can't stand girls that can't dance to save their lives, trying to dance with me. If she plays her snobby ***** role, which I still get from time to time, I don't care.. I guess she thinks I'm going to make a lame pickup attempt on her or something. I think nothing of it. she hasn't done jack **** to my ego because It's not there for her to valiate.

I don't leave the club with women, becaue I don't go to the club to get women. If I wanted a girl, I would go over a girl's house,which is why I usually don't go to clubs ;)

My advice is.. if you do go out to a club, keep your head up, don't be like the other deadbeats, have fun, because that's what it's all about.. and that goes for life in general.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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I think your a **** for insulting those people... if you were their family and they were losers, would you let people talk behind their backs? You can see it, I know you can, and now your ****ing coming onto a website so I know that you think your better than them, how ****ing dare you, people have suffered, they are still suffering, and now your laughing at them?

MightyMate, you are a boring mother ****er, mugger, haha, ****ing tard, get some balls and have fun, let loose, stop trying to pretend your better than me. I will show you up if we go to a dance club, I'm going to see you pick up a girl and get her number, and I'll come up behind her squeeze her bottom if she's a fun girl and get her to tell you not to call her or she's going to have to get her number changed. Dude, why a phone number? Whatever, have fun, start making your posts fun, I've been talking about you in public dude, what you gonna do?
 

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You forgot the drug dealers and crackheads.

Two major groups in those scenes.
 

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Originally posted by ethnomethodologist

MightyMate, you are a boring mother ****er, mugger, haha, ****ing tard, get some balls and have fun, let loose, stop trying to pretend your better than me. I will show you up if we go to a dance club, I'm going to see you pick up a girl and get her number, and I'll come up behind her squeeze her bottom if she's a fun girl and get her to tell you not to call her or she's going to have to get her number changed. Dude, why a phone number? Whatever, have fun, start making your posts fun, I've been talking about you in public dude, what you gonna do?
You are totally ****ed up kid.
 

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personally i agree with you 100% on the "being happy and doing things for yourself" aspect of your article. you are right about the muggers and attention *****s etc.

i hate hanging with dudes that are "too gangsta" to talk, sit in their groups smoking and thinking they're better

but just a little advice for you, don't have so much anger bro. the bible suggests that we should talk to everyone right? well i used to be like you and diss everyone, but i've come to accept others and realise that people are different.

eg. let the muggers keep on... muggin.. and the attention *****s do their thing. you just play your part and have fun
 

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Originally posted by backbreaker

A) The Muggers

The guys who think they are soooo cool, that they can walk in the club, not dance, not talk to anyone, look pissed off the entire night, and wonder why everyone scapmers away from them. Why would I want to talk to someone who looks like he might pull out a gun and shoot me for looking at him.

These are the guys that sit in the middle of the dance floor, keyword being DANCE, and just sit there, starring at everyone, like they are just THAT damn cool.



Thats me, cause Im pissed off cause I always get dragged into the club by my friends...I stopped going to the club a long time ago because it isnt my thing, and it sucks when I get time off work and I want to see my friends and they want to go to the club, so I go just to see my friends...I know what Im good and bad at, and Im not good in the club, Im not the type to try to impress broads with dancing and all that, so if you see me in the corner mugging with a drink in my hand, leave me alone lol...
 

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Originally posted by superman2k6
personally i agree with you 100% on the "being happy and doing things for yourself" aspect of your article. you are right about the muggers and attention *****s etc.

i hate hanging with dudes that are "too gangsta" to talk, sit in their groups smoking and thinking they're better

but just a little advice for you, don't have so much anger bro. the bible suggests that we should talk to everyone right? well i used to be like you and diss everyone, but i've come to accept others and realise that people are different.

eg. let the muggers keep on... muggin.. and the attention *****s do their thing. you just play your part and have fun
lol, anger? Far from it. why should I be angry and who at?

Quite the opposite.. I actually feel bad for people like that.. because they don't understand just how stupid and sheepish they look in everyones eyes.

There is a difference in between dissing someone and pointing out something that's ovbious.

I have a talent for seeing people for what they are. Why they do the things they do.

Anyone who gets dressed up, puts on colonge, drive across town, pay 20 dollars to get in the club, just to sit in the middle of the dance floor and stair at everyone has some mental issues.. well not mental issues, but some internal issues that seriously need to be addressed. They don't even know why they are there.

Any girl that talks to 5-10 guys, and when you come along and do something as simple as.. leave... and they throw themselves at you just to prove to themselves that they are important to you, has issues.

Just last night I went to the club, and there was this middle eastern woman in there.. very nice, exotic looking.. but i wasn't really feeling her outfit.. but she was very very naturally good looking. She literarly, in all seriousness, had a line of guys waiting to talk to you... I know because you had to part t hem to get to the dance floor.

Now, I didn't talk to her, mainly because of her outfit.. that really errked me what she had on, but I could have. She kept going out of her way to come dance by me, giving ME eye contact, because I was one of the only decent looking guys in the club that didn't take a number and stand in line to talk to her.

You know how many cronic partiers I know? Too damn many. It's 1:30 in the morning. I know, off the top of my head.. 4 women that I will bet 100 dollars are at the club.

You know you go to the club to much when you have a running tab and you don't even have to give them your credit card.

However, i have nothing against them... the best sex I ever had was with a girl, in a similar situtation, who I pushed and pulled my attention with for a couple of months, until she just had to have me, not because I'm me, but because she wanted to make sure she measured up in my eyes.

But you call em like you see em.

You can find value if you look at anyone with the right intentions.

Like I said, they may be ****ed up in the head, but hey, that's their problems.. you can still **** em and I do, but what I am saying is that in reality, people like that are sad and you don't want to become one of them. My dad is like that. I run into my dad at clubs more than I see him out in the street. One day a girl I was ****ing around with was getting hit on by a man when I walked in, and she came and talked to me, and told me this guy was hitting on her.. I looked at him and said.. damnit that's my dad (no joke, 100% true story) she didn't believe he was my dad (he looks very young, however he is 45) so he pulled out my baby pictures.. it was too funny.

However the point is, I know my dad to know how he thinks. His entire life revolves around seeking approval from women. His wife is closer to my age than his (29... and to be honest... pretty damn good looking too), has 2 degrees.. I mean, she is a bit of a drama queen but hey, she's a woman.

however he can't stop ****ing around. Not because he doesn't love his wife, but simply because that's how he is wired. He tried to **** my ex GF that I had breifty thought about settling down with. It didn't suprise me in the least bit.

You don't want to be like that. My dad looks at me and wonders why I don't go out as much as he does, or why I won't **** so and so.. I tell him it's because I don't want to. If I see something I geniually like, I take it. I don't **** girls just because they are there to be ****ed, because I don't need to.
 

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Re: Re: Isn't the club the craziest place on earth?

Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Thats me, cause Im pissed off cause I always get dragged into the club by my friends...I stopped going to the club a long time ago because it isnt my thing, and it sucks when I get time off work and I want to see my friends and they want to go to the club, so I go just to see my friends...I know what Im good and bad at, and Im not good in the club, Im not the type to try to impress broads with dancing and all that, so if you see me in the corner mugging with a drink in my hand, leave me alone lol...
1 2 step, learn it, master it :)

I can dance.. quite good actually, however I don't... because I'm a grown ass man. Now, I hardley ever just get on a girl's ass and grind.. that's not dancing, but if that's all she can do than I have no choice.. that's why my ex and I never danced with each other, she can't dance to save her life.

Usually I just sway to the music in a controlled manner. But if a song will come on and a girl wants to really dance, I can get down if need be.

I always think of dancing like sex. you don't want to be one of thoose fools on the dance floor, moving all which a way like a damn fool just because you like the song.

That's the equivlant to jumping up and down on a girl in bed, just because you are happy you are getting *****.

You gotta control yourself. Even when I dance, I don't just get crazy like I did when I was a kid.. i'm a grown ass man.

I would love to learn how to tango, it looks very interesting and it's unique
 

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Re: Re: Re: Isn't the club the craziest place on earth?

Originally posted by backbreaker
2 step, learn it, master it :)

I can dance.. quite good actually, however I don't... because I'm a grown ass man. Now, I hardley ever just get on a girl's ass and grind.. that's not dancing, but if that's all she can do than I have no choice.. that's why my ex and I never danced with each other, she can't dance to save her life.

Usually I just sway to the music in a controlled manner. But if a song will come on and a girl wants to really dance, I can get down if need be.

I always think of dancing like sex. you don't want to be one of thoose fools on the dance floor, moving all which a way like a damn fool just because you like the song.

That's the equivlant to jumping up and down on a girl in bed, just because you are happy you are getting *****.

You gotta control yourself. Even when I dance, I don't just get crazy like I did when I was a kid.. i'm a grown ass man.

I would love to learn how to tango, it looks very interesting and it's unique
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Re: Re: Re: Isn't the club the craziest place on earth?

Originally posted by backbreaker
1 2 step, learn it, master it :)

I can dance.. quite good actually, however I don't... because I'm a grown ass man. Now, I hardley ever just get on a girl's ass and grind.. that's not dancing, but if that's all she can do than I have no choice.. that's why my ex and I never danced with each other, she can't dance to save her life.

Usually I just sway to the music in a controlled manner. But if a song will come on and a girl wants to really dance, I can get down if need be.

Yeah, thats how it is with me...When I first started going when I was 18, I used to like to dance and all of that, but now if Im not grinding, the most Ill do is the swaying thing, lol...And if im grinding on a chick, Im trying to smash or something and like only 1% of the girls in there are trying to fukk or anything so I really lost interest with it...
 

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my question of the day is going to be all about making new friends...

backbreaker, are these people just too damned boring to chill with? Why shouldn't I chill with em, and what is the group that you fall into?

Have you never been the mugger, while you were angry and sarging alone?

Have you never been the "attention slut" where you were being funny with all of your friends, than when the ug comes to ask for a dance you get all defensive, and laugh at her after her back is turned?

Have you ever been one of those loser guys, that go out and get PISSED?

I don't understand why, YOU, would go to the club everynight anyways, why don't you have something better to do?
 

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Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
my question of the day is going to be all about making new friends...

backbreaker, are these people just too damned boring to chill with? Why shouldn't I chill with em, and what is the group that you fall into?

Have you never been the mugger, while you were angry and sarging alone?

Have you never been the "attention slut" where you were being funny with all of your friends, than when the ug comes to ask for a dance you get all defensive, and laugh at her after her back is turned?

Have you ever been one of those loser guys, that go out and get PISSED?

I don't understand why, YOU, would go to the club everynight anyways, why don't you have something better to do?
Cut the man some slack, he never said to not socialise with groups of people, just to go out and make yourself some fun times.If you are entertained by muggers then by all means 'chill'.

I'v been every group there is bar those crazy goth/emo ones we get around here, now i just go out with my chick friend and meet some interesting people and axcidently pickup everynight in the course of having a good time.
 
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