"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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isn't it true that...

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the type of game/how to act/what to say/what to do etc to get girls is different depending on how strictly physically good looking the guy is? if a really good looking dude does the same things an average or less than average looking guy does, won't it not really work or have the same effect?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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like if a really good looking dude uses as much C+F as properly used by an average looking dude, couldn't that actually hurt him?
 

just so suave

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not really, there are slightly different c+F attitudes though for ugly men and model type men

for examply, girls would find it funny if a ugly man said "look i know im drop dead gorgous but can you try to keep you hands to yourself"
whereas if a attractive 10/10 man said this he'd be accused of being very big headed
 
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