"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Isn't it really annoying when girls...

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...try to bait you into asking questions so they can rant/rave about something?

Ex:

me - "what did you do tonight?"
her - "oh I just stayed at home mad"

her - "what you doin up?"
me - "blah blah blah...u?"
her - "oooo I'm just sitting here being irritated."

It's almost like she's waiting for me to ask "how come?" or "why?" so then she can ramble on about her problems. Fortunately, I didn't give in and I just carried on the conversation as if she didn't try this little ploy. Why do I waste time with girls like this...
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yep, it's called Implied Questioning. You know about Conversation Control. Yeah. She WANTS to talk about her problem.

Is it because you're just a friend? Most likely not. Everyone has their bad days.
 
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Docs said:
Yep, it's called Implied Questioning. You know about Conversation Control. Yeah. She WANTS to talk about her problem.

Is it because you're just a friend? Most likely not. Everyone has their bad days.
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We're casual friends I guess, but I suspect I'm in the friendzone. This girl has a BF too. I think she wants to hang out again but she seems very into herself and I don't think it's worth my time.
 
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Just give her the "why" that she so desires along with asking her to do something for you. The idea is to make her work. Sitting on her a** will only make her fatter. Get her up off of her feet and make that b**** work.
 
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What I really hate is when people fish for compliments. I very rarely give in then; I like to just let them insult themselves and say nothing in response.

yeah, the implied questioning thing is annoying, but I'm a little more tolerant of it
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Not to be a control freak but...

...as a man you always got to lead. So I always feel it's my job to set the vibe each time I have a conversation. Most chicks start conversations like that, then you go down the trap have taking about you're day and sh!t, she gets bored and leaves.

In the two scenarios I'd tend to either tell a story or just say something random...

me - "what did you do tonight?" (I would never really ask this but for situation purposes)
her - "oh I just stayed at home mad"

1. Me: Really, I'm sorry I fuked you so hard you couldn't come out the house...I didn't know you couldn't handle it (I love sexual inneundo)
2. Me: Yea I'm mad too!...I had to spend my whole day beating off because my 3 stripper gfs never came over
3. Me: OMG he left you!? It's ok he wasn't right for you anyway...I have someone perfect for you...He's never left his house in 5 year, all he does is play games. WAIT until you see his thumbs, you'll love him.

her - "what you doin up?"

1. Me: Beating off to the lastest porn flick
2. Me: Trying to call up all my ladies to start up a game of TWISTER...Naked
3. Me: I can't sleep...Blue balls

Note - I see this completly randomly and then go into a normal conversation. This tends to always catch women off guard because most guys would NEVER say such things, usually it's boring sh!t like "I'm watching Titantic"
 
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yeah, I think it's little silly if you seriously have to entertain all the girls in your life constantly like that, but i get what you're saying
 
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