"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Isn't it Fun?

Deadly_Ripped

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Do you guys agree with this?

After years of dating and several learning experience in the form of failed LTRs, LDRs, ONSs, and 1/2-daters, I feel like I'm getting more comfortable with the whole process. There seem to be fewer and fewer things that throw me for a loop, simply because I've seen them before. It turns out that women aren't really all that different from each other when you get down to it.

I've been seeing someone for a little over a month. We're in the same social group, but we work in different divisions of the same company. Not a SINGLE person in company knows that we're dating! So far we've been on 4 dates and have hung out several times in large groups at professional and unrelated social functions.

The craziest thing about this is that she and I were acquaintances before we started dating, which really took the edge off of the initial few dates. Our entertaining repoire and witty banter doesn't seem to get old, and we're developing stronger feelings for each other. She and I seem to share many of the same values, including views on fitness, nutrition, and edication.

This is fun!

I must make the best of this situation before I discover how crazy she is... they're all crazy, but some hide it better than others. Just a matter of time before it all blows up in our faces, but until that point I'm going to enjoy it

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Matthew Lyon

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We're all crazy. We're all insecure. We all have something to offer. Any everything you see in women is a mirror reflection of yourself.
 

Atom Smasher

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Yup, Deadly R, we all need to figure just how much "crazy" we can tolerate. Unfortunately, my tolerance level is very low and I've spent my life looking for a feminine woman who is capable of rational thought and relatively stable emotions.

I think that was findable 20 or 30 years ago, but today a woman like that is literally extinct. So I find myself struggling to adjust my tolerance level without turning my back on my convictions. It's a tough balance to strike.
 
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