Isla Vista, Tempe, etc: Can "ethnic" guys do well in all American type of areas and crowds?

[Listen_to_Olly]

This is my experience too. I live in the state of NY. The only way I've seen ethnic men overcome this is by being apart of a social circle of 'acceptable' high value men. By assocation, women are more willing to lower barriers but its still pretty tough.

I know this isn't what you want to hear but I'd say fūck it. Join a social circle of women the same ethnicity as you and date the cream of the crop. Why expend the extra effort & possible embarassment of over coming social barriers and stigma? An HB9 is an HB9.

Great men don't settle and they don't take the easy way out if that is what they want. I don't know where in NY you are but I see plenty of ethnic men in the NYC area (Brooklyn and Manhattan) pull hot white girls and hot blondes in particular, even more common if she is foreign.

I can understand if you are only attracted to Asian chicks, then I say go for it and only stick to your own race but if you like hot white girls, don't settle for less and actually put the work in to get them.

It can most definitely be done and it becomes more and more common every year, pretty soon ethnic guys are going to be the new black guys. I already see some Asian, Indian, and quite a few Hispanic guys breaking the mold and pulling hot white girls. Don't be a coward, go for what you want even if it is tough to get.

 

[skinnyguy]

Arizona sucks. However I have had success in San Diego. SD is way better than SJ.

Don't know guys keep talking about blonde girls. A lot of them aren't hot. Think of all the fat blonde single moms.

 

[Masculinity]

Perception is that white and black men are "American" and all other races are "foreign", that is what the perception is and when it comes to game, women, and scoring; perception matters far more than reality.

Perception isn't necessarily correct and certainly not in this case. Truth is more important.

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

Perception isn't necessarily correct and certainly not in this case. Truth is more important.

To women it is not important at all, perception is everything.

Women pay a great deal of attention to racial stereotypes as opposed to the facts themselves.

The reality is that most Asian and Indian guys do not fit the heavy accent immigrant stereotype, a lot of the ones struggling are white washed but just misfits struggling to find a way to get the kinds of girls they want. But the perception is that Asian and Indian men are "foreign" in a bad way and that is what sticks, hence their struggle.

Same for latinos, women do not perceive them as "American".

 

[Masculinity]

To women it is not important at all, perception is everything.

Women pay a great deal of attention to racial stereotypes as opposed to the facts themselves.

The reality is that most Asian and Indian guys do not fit the heavy accent immigrant stereotype, a lot of the ones struggling are white washed but just misfits struggling to find a way to get the kinds of girls they want. But the perception is that Asian and Indian men are "foreign" in a bad way and that is what sticks, hence their struggle.

Same for latinos, women do not perceive them as "American".

We are in a predominantly male forum and a lot of us are leaders. We respond to logic. And stereotypes need to be confronted and challenged.

I disagree with your paradigm; however, you're certainly allowed to have an opinion. I correct people in general when they're misinformed or unaware of things. It's a duty to me. As for what people think of me, I don't really care and that certainly influences my behavior. I have handled my business with mostly white women (about 80%) in addition to Latinas, Asians, Native American blends & Blacks. I have had women from Sweden, Costa Rica, Sri Lanka, México, The U.S., Japan, Bolivia, Iran, the Netherlands, Russia, China, etc.

Now to really blow your mind, I'm not the kind of guy you'd consider to be "White," yet I still have success with different ethnicities, races, and nationalities. If that's not evidence that success with women is possible regardless of your race, ethinicity or nationality (everything else being equal), I don't know what is. Case closed.

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

We are in a predominantly male forum and a lot of us are leaders. We respond to logic. And stereotypes need to be confronted and challenged.

I disagree with your paradigm; however, you're certainly allowed to have an opinion. I correct people in general when they're misinformed or unaware of things. It's a duty to me. As for what people think of me, I don't really care and that certainly influences my behavior. I have handled my business with mostly white women (about 80%) in addition to Latinas, Asians, Native American blends & Blacks. I have had women from Sweden, Costa Rica, Sri Lanka, México, The U.S., Japan, Bolivia, Iran, the Netherlands, Russia, China, etc.

Now to really blow your mind, I'm not the kind of guy you'd consider to be "White," yet I still have success with different ethnicities, races, and nationalities. If that's not evidence that success with women is possible regardless of your race, ethinicity or nationality (everything else being equal), I don't know what is. Case closed.

Bold = Yes and I live in the real world where logic goes out the window.

What race are you anyways?

 

[Masculinity]

Bold = Yes and I live in the real world where logic goes out the window.

What race are you anyways?

My race doesn't matter because the logic behind why I can attract women will go out the window anyway.

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

My race doesn't matter because the logic behind why I can attract women will go out the window anyway.

Actually it does matter because if you aren't a Hispanic or Asian guy, you just wasted your entire time posting on this thread.

 

[Skyline]

You're still on about this? It's not about your race it's about how you PRESENT it.

White girls generally go for white dudes. The types of white dudes I can think of are: frat/rich kid white, cowboy/redneck, biker gang white, and slim shady white.

I love white bread. I'm half Asian and half spanish. How do I overcome this? I dress like a white biker from the south. Denim vests, bro tanks, jeans, subtle cowboy boots, rings, southern hats, necklaces, and if I had some- tattoos.

This style matches with my personality. If you're ghetto then you can easily transition to another ghetto. If you're a rich asian kid you can easily transition to a rich white kid.

 

[Masculinity]

Actually it does matter because if you aren't a Hispanic or Asian guy, you just wasted your entire time posting on this thread.

I didn't waste my time. I spend time here because I enjoy the topics we discuss in the forum and having the privilege to change (possibly) another man's reality and thoughts.

But since you care about race so much, I will answer by saying I do fall into one of the two races you mentioned ^

 

[Good Gao]

@Good Gao we are noticing all your post are the same sh!t about Asian guy dating white women, really does your life revolve around this notion only? How about going to AZ with an open mind, if you are able to talk to white women good, if not you move on, many guys here that have game, game any race.

nope, has to be white women

And before you complain about how I am being a hypocrite, I already get white girls where I am at so suck it xD

 

[Trainwreck]

You're still on about this? It's not about your race it's about how you PRESENT it.

White girls generally go for white dudes. The types of white dudes I can think of are: frat/rich kid white, cowboy/redneck, biker gang white, and slim shady white.

I love white bread. I'm half Asian and half spanish. How do I overcome this? I dress like a white biker from the south. Denim vests, bro tanks, jeans, subtle cowboy boots, rings, southern hats, necklaces, and if I had some- tattoos.

This style matches with my personality. If you're ghetto then you can easily transition to another ghetto. If you're a rich asian kid you can easily transition to a rich white kid.

This is the worst advice ever. As a black guy, your better off looking like Chief Kieff than tiger woods if you want a white girl.

 

[Solomon]

I got an Asian Buddy in Tuscon who dates hot spanish girls and bimbo-ish white girls if that's your thing i.e. blond, fake tan, fake tits etc

2 things

1. He's in great shape and 2. Social Circle Game

The guy has been doing this forever and has pulled some hot chicks