Is your standard getting higher?

[b305d]

Something I've noticed and wouldn't believe it myself if you'd told me years ago.

Girls I used to thought were decent looking when I was young, now I would not even consider fvcking unless I was extremely drunk. Which I have done and regret the next day.

Girls I used to thought were gorgeous/mesmerizing. I was in a LTR with one for about a year. This b1tch was still better looking than 95% of the girls around even after she gained some weight during our relationship.

The sex was mind-blowing at first, soooo good, better than hard drug. Then slowly I got bored of it.

It was the most unexpected thing. No one ever told me this would happen.

Eventually, I started looking at porn again. I finally understood why some men cheat down, because I started looking at other girls who weren't even as good looking as her.

Then you know how LTR goes, decreasing IL and increasing attitude.
Most guys would call me crazy but I can see now why some guy can just dump a good-looking chick.

Now, I may sound like a shallow bastard, but today I get a little bit embarrassed that some girls would even get flirty with me.

Makes me feel bad for them so I just play it cool so I don't come off looking like an assh0le.

After the breakup with this girl, my standard got even more fvcked up.

I noticed now, when I look at a pretty girl, they seem so average.
My pulse is not racing. My heart doesn't beat faster.

I still want to fvck them but there's no longer that mind-twisting, gnawing hunger.

When I see pictures of good-looking girls, there used to be this mystical quality about it. I want to get to know them, etc.

Now, all I think is, how much time it took for them to put on their makeup, how they desperately crave attention. Those empty eyes with no thoughts, another generic girl. I don't even want to waste my time on them.

I think I'm just getting old. Don't you feel the same sometimes?

 

[TheException]

Its a part of growth.

Once you start to become successful with attractive women.....then you start to ONLY deal with attractive women so other features get highlighted. It plays an important role in screening and is beneficial for a man when his mindset is in this headsphere.

 

[b305d]

Its a part of growth.

Once you start to become successful with attractive women.....then you start to ONLY deal with attractive women so other features get highlighted. It plays an important role in screening and is beneficial for a man when his mindset is in this headsphere.

Yea, I distinctly remember how I felt being around good-looking girls when I was young. The racing pulse, the nervousness, I couldn't even think straight let alone make a joke.

I still get a tiny fraction of that feeling if I'm around an extremely, extremely good-looking girl, but those are so rare, they might as well not exist.

The rest of women now seem so mundane. I don't even want to bother talking to a 7. Just think of all the crap we have to put up with.
I never really appreciated how easy it was to get along with my guy friends until having to deal with a girl day after day.

Over time, I also had this revelation. Those 7s and 6s are no easier to get than 8s and 9s. They are easy only by virtue of their abundance.

You have more chance of running into them and hanging around them.
With the 8s and 9s, you have to rely on serendipity.

Some of those 6s and 7s are surprisingly delusional about their attractiveness and a lot have over-inflated egos.

On the other hand, the 8s and 9s might have low self-esteem or just a healthy ego of average girls.

 

[JoeMarron]

This is why I don't see the point in chasing after hot chicks when it comes to relationships. Whether she's a 10 or a 6 eventually looks aren't going to matter too much and she's going to have to have other good qualities in order to keep a man interested. Men are better off dating down and having his chick be on her best behavior because she knows he can easily get hotter women.

 

[gravityeyelids]

Think of it as tolerance. And yes i agree on all counts with you.

I look back to the girls i was pining after in high school and freshman year of college, and now i'm like......damn she wasn't even that hot...

It's a very good thing. Not only are your standards higher, but also after having bagged good looking girls, you know that you can totally get with hot girls most guys wouldnt even approach and it makes it excellent

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I know exactly what you are saying I look back and the girls I use to mess with from high school. Some of them who I thought were hot others were just quick lay. And I realized they weren't that hot. I remember girls I use to crush on when I was younger....not even average. Some even look the same, some got fat and old looking. Me and my friends were talking about this laughing at how ugly they were and why we even were attracted to them.

When I see hot girls I don't get that racing pulse either or fluttering heart. I'm like shes cute, but I don't really care. My standards have always been "high" I always thought my friends overrated girls they liked looks. And when they take the make-up off wow what a difference. I like simpler more cute girls now with some what of a personality not that stupid ***** face nicki minaj syndrome, got ugly chicks thinking they are hot hahahahaha. My only weakness is a girl with a big booty and curves I get really desperate and eager its my weakness, even if there face is jacked lmao

 

[b305d]

This is why I don't see the point in chasing after hot chicks when it comes to relationships. Whether she's a 10 or a 6 eventually looks aren't going to matter too much and she's going to have to have other good qualities in order to keep a man interested. Men are better off dating down and having his chick be on her best behavior because she knows he can easily get hotter women.

See, there's a big misconception for some guys. Or I may be wrong on this because these girls treat me differently.

But a 6 isn't necessarily easier to deal with than a 9.

I've been rejected by girls who are 6.
I've also had a much easier time getting with 8s or above.

It's not just my bias talking either. Sometimes I think maybe it's because those 6s knew I wasn't taking them seriously.

In general, the modern girl all have this paradoxical low self-esteem that craves attention, yet they also have the big ego and narcissism.

It takes the same amount of effort to get a 6 vs a 9.

Every girl will be on their best behavior when their IL is high, 6, 7, 8, 9, it doesn't matter.

When IL is low, 1,2,3,4,5,6, it also doesn't matter. They will all treat you like sh1t, and IL will always lower with time, it doesn't matter how far above them you are.

My roommate in college got dump by a 6 in the most humiliating way.
He could have done way better than that girl if he had some game.

Then what happened next, he started dating this girl who was orbiting him for years. They're "best friends".

This girl is a 2 at most. The type of girl that gets pump and dump by even low, low quality guys.

My friend knew all about her getting pump and dump in her past by all these guys.

Whenever I see this girl, I smile and treat her politely.

I can barely stand to look at her straight in the face, that is how repulsive her face is.

She is a nice girl, but I just have to be honest.

My roommate dated her because he was tired of "chasing after girls above his league" lol. I can tell he was very reluctant at first and kept her orbiting for years.

At first, she was all over him. No surprise, this girl would be lucky if she even manage to land a 4'5 homeless dwarf.

Then over time, IL fade and he went through the same sh1t every guy does in a LTR. Except, this is with a 2. Let that sink in for a moment.

 

[Dgwizdal]

See, there's a big misconception for some guys. Or I may be wrong on this because these girls treat me differently.

But a 6 isn't necessarily easier to deal with than a 9.

I've been rejected by girls who are 6.
I've also had a much easier time getting with 8s or above.

It's not just my bias talking either. Sometimes I think maybe it's because those 6s knew I wasn't taking them seriously.

In general, the modern girl all have this paradoxical low self-esteem that craves attention, yet they also have the big ego and narcissism.

It takes the same amount of effort to get a 6 vs a 9.

Every girl will be on their best behavior when their IL is high, 6, 7, 8, 9, it doesn't matter.

When IL is low, 1,2,3,4,5,6, it also doesn't matter. They will all treat you like sh1t, and IL will always lower with time, it doesn't matter how far above them you are.

My roommate in college got dump by a 6 in the most humiliating way.
He could have done way better than that girl if he had some game.

Then what happened next, he started dating this girl who was orbiting him for years. They're "best friends".

This girl is a 2 at most. The type of girl that gets pump and dump by even low, low quality guys.

My friend knew all about her getting pump and dump in her past by all these guys.

Whenever I see this girl, I smile and treat her politely.

I can barely stand to look at her straight in the face, that is how repulsive her face is.

She is a nice girl, but I just have to be honest.

My roommate dated her because he was tired of "chasing after girls above his league" lol. I can tell he was very reluctant at first and kept her orbiting for years.

At first, she was all over him. No surprise, this girl would be lucky if she even manage to land a 4'5 homeless dwarf.

Then over time, IL fade and he went through the same sh1t every guy does in a LTR. Except, this is with a 2. Let that sink in for a moment.

LMAO. For every HB you see there is some guy tired of fvcking her and putting up with her sh!t. Girls think the same way about guys that may be of higher value.




I've been rejected by girls who are 6.
I've also had a much easier time getting with 8s or above.

It's not just my bias talking either. Sometimes I think maybe it's because those 6s knew I wasn't taking them seriously.


In my experience, this is true as well. My game seems to backfire a bit when I'm shooting for below a 7. Seems like some of the less attractive girls will sh*t test the f*ck out of you, and if you pass them with flying colors, then they expect you to be a super white knight while their interest levels are through the clouds.

As if they put up a b*tch shield because they know you are of higher value and don't want to get f*cked around again.


My game is a bit aggressive and jerk-boyish. I have a rough time building rapport after fvcking. I bed 5-9's with the same attitude but 7's and above are the only ones that are able to spar with me and get addicted to my aloof emotional crack for the long haul. Below 7's usually say see ya later in a fit of rage after some time if I don't turn it down a notch or two and up the moopeyshmoopey factor.

Could it be that a girl looks are truly inverse proportional to their self-respect or bullsh*t tollerance?

 

[JoeMarron]

It takes the same amount of effort to get a 6 vs a 9.

Maybe but I'm talking about keeping a 6 vs a 9. You can't argue that a 6 is going to get the same attention that a 9 would get. A 9 is going to have far more quality choices than a 6. Women want a man of higher value so how is a dude trying to date up going to be higher value? He'll be a constant reminder that she can do better.

Then over time, IL fade and he went through the same sh1t every guy does in a LTR. Except, this is with a 2. Let that sink in for a moment.

I have to question the game of a man who would willingly form an LTR with a 2. Spineless men are going to get their balls snatched by a woman regardless of how attractive or ugly she is. Plus I'm sure we can all agree that in general as attractiveness increases sanity decreases. A 10 who's had dudes slobbering over her since grade school and has had life handed to her on a silver platter is bound to be more of a b!tch than a less attractive chick.

 

[BMX]

Yes, my standards have gone up with time. Especially over the past year..and I am glad they did.

 

[Trump]

See, there's a big misconception for some guys. Or I may be wrong on this because these girls treat me differently.

But a 6 isn't necessarily easier to deal with than a 9.

I've been rejected by girls who are 6.
I've also had a much easier time getting with 8s or above.

It takes the same amount of effort to get a 6 vs a 9.

I don't know about that bro. It takes the same effort to get a supermodel than a supermarket cashier?

A 6 is like a 35 year old women. You can crush into the ground if she behaves badly. Where is she gonna go? Who the heck would want her? Their looks are fading and they are begging to have sex before its too late, you have all the leverage in the world.

A 8 or 9 on the other hand has options, you have to be on your best behaviour. :cheer: