"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is working in an office like jail time for money?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Derek Flint

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It's what you make it.

BTW, my "Jail" is 1.5 miles from my home, takes me 3 minutes to drive there, and pays me 60K per year.

I get up at 8:20 AM and I also come home for lunch for an hour.
 

MetalFortress

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It depends what you do, really, as well as your 'tude. I'd hate to telemarket or to work at a call-center, or whatever. However, my major is computer science, and spending hours a day writing code and that sort of thing would be nothing short of awesome.

As for right now. I have a pretty chill job. I make 11 dollars an hour delivering auto parts to shops in my pickup truck. When I'm between runs, I can go shopping, run errands, eat, etc, all as long as I make it back to the warehouse in time for the next run. Basically, I drive around listening to the radio, and get paid for it.
 

spider_007

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Dude, welcome to the REAL WORLD (you know, the thing after highschool or collage!!)

90% OF JOBS ARE SH!T, EVEN IF YOU LIKE THEM
 
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