"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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is unintentional touching a sign of attraction?

tsmith2334

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I'm NOT talking about kino here.

I'm talking about being out to dinner with a woman and your feet touching and neither of you pulling back or sitting next to somebody and pressing up against them softly without them moving away.

Do little things like that signify attraction?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Well, I'm not really sure. But, if she is confortable enough with you envading her space and her not backing away from it... She is probably confortable with you touching her. Thus, would be a green light to start using kino.
 

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If she touches your happy harry, then must be a good sign :whistle:

seriously, with those signs you can't say if shes attracted or not. Maybe interested. Notice it. But as previously said, She is probably confortable with you touching her.
keep the interaction on and go for more significant kino.

cheers
 

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Thanks for the feedback. :up:

I assumed it represented some form of interest, since the woman doesn't pull away at your touch.

In response to what cedd and I.A.F.Y.B. stated, if she is comfortable with you touching her, I figure that's gotta be good for something... atleast mild attraction, no?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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It means something but, does it mean attraction? She could just think of you as a friend and does not mind your touch. Or she likes you and likes you touching her. If your touch has no intention then, you won't know. Unless, you step up the kino/touching and she responds to it in a good way. She, probably has some kind of attraction for you. Or is just comfortable around you. It can go either way....
 

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OR she had something on her shoe, foot itched
 

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if its "intentional" unintentional touching. IE it seems innocuous but really the girl just wants to rub up on you and get your attention. Sometimes it just happens though when leaning in to listen to someone, or walking with someone.

An example is when you're at a bar, sitting next to a girl or in a booth and your legs touch, for a while, or youre sitting next to her really close while talking so that you're bodies are touching. I think those are both def. green lights.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Inside Man said:
An example is when you're at a bar, sitting next to a girl or in a booth and your legs touch, for a while, or youre sitting next to her really close while talking so that you're bodies are touching. I think those are both def. green lights.
That's exactly what I'm talking about in this post. We also seem to have the same hunch (that it's a green light)
 
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