"is tonight a date"

[Bjj_playa]

asked her to movie...we decided 7pm..she just txted me on phone saying "is tonight a date?"...does that mean shes thinking of bringing more people? im not going if she is..what should i say...would it not be obvious wtf

 

[Incog]

Play dumb and reply "Tonight's date is the 13th of January."

I doubt she will bring others. If she does mention it, just tell her you'll pass.

She may just be asking to see where you two stand, and to see how you reply.

 

[Omni]

she just txted me on phone saying "is tonight a date?"..what should i say

You say "Do you WANT it to be a date?" Then, the ball is in HER court, and you don't have to reveal anything.

 

[Bjj_playa]

she asked me if we could go tomorrow...i said why and she said she'd feel more comfortable. duno what that means. this is the second time she cancelled so i dont really care anymore. it old her shes paying for my ticket she said okay. but im not calling the tard, ***** wasted too much of my time

 

[musclyjerk]

Who knows what it means.

Call the whole thing off and tell her you've got other plans for tonight.

Then keep saying you're too busy if she persists trying to re-arrange the date (unlikely that she will though) until she gives up, and that's her out of your life for good.

Get rid of this flake,

The Muscly Jerk