"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

"is tonight a date"

Bjj_playa

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 2, 2006
Messages
49
Reaction score
0
asked her to movie...we decided 7pm..she just txted me on phone saying "is tonight a date?"...does that mean shes thinking of bringing more people? im not going if she is..what should i say
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

djweses89

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 1, 2006
Messages
166
Reaction score
0
so something suave like be like no its not a date its a chance for you to take me out buy me a movie and get to know me better of course be joking or be like naw just that new scarey movie i need someones ear to scream in when i freak out but yea dont use those exact things think of something of your own but ur a DJ you can think of something good to say
 

Sean O

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 26, 2006
Messages
348
Reaction score
4
Don't say yes or no in your anwer. Say something along the lines of: "It's a chance to see how we are with each other outside of school." Make her wonder... :up:
 

The Forms

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 12, 2005
Messages
378
Reaction score
10
You could just respond along the line of "is that a problem?" or "two single people together at a movie? No. That doesn't sound like a date at all"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Top