I don't have the app myself, but my friend does. He's an okay looking dude, Asian. Is the app mostly an ego-boost thing for women? Just from the sounds of it, it seems to tilt things in their favor even more than standard online dating. From what I gather, both the guy and the girl have to "like" each other before they even get to message, right? In which case, game doesn't really matter all that much. You just don't have to fvck up since the girl already finds you attractive.
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Is Tinder mainly about looks?
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I think all the online dating sites favor women because there are tons of beta chump tools messaging these chicks all the time, so they feel they have their pick. Even ugly chicks get lots of play. I have been doing POF for the last two months and it's amazing how many trolls hit me up.
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everything is about looks
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looks gets you in the doorteddy said:
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You are correct on that, no matter how well written your profile or how clever your opener is, if hb doesn't find you attractive, you're sunk. The flip side of that is that if they are messaging you, you know they have at least some level of attraction.teddy said:
I have been out with about 6 chicks from POF in the last two months and they are mostly 5's and 6's. I haven't managed to get any real hotties yet. But, I need to lose about 25lbs to look good myself so I am probably only a 5 or 6 at the moment myself.
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It's an app where they choose based on your pics.. what else would have a factor??
It's not like they're reading your little description (which should be 1-2 sentences of something fun- or you're trying too hard).
It's not like they're reading your little description (which should be 1-2 sentences of something fun- or you're trying too hard).
bukowski_merit
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Tinder doesn't really have a profile other than your pics.
So, yes it's far more looks based than other dating sites.
With that said - a girl saying she finds you attractive and swiping "yes" doesn't give you instant access to her unscrubed vagina..... gotta work for that jackpot of honey.
So, yes it's far more looks based than other dating sites.
With that said - a girl saying she finds you attractive and swiping "yes" doesn't give you instant access to her unscrubed vagina..... gotta work for that jackpot of honey.
Is this a serious thread?
Of course an app that has people like each other based on photos is mostly and foremost about instant physical attraction (looks is what matters on that app)
And Tinder is a good bit different from OLD because women have to actually mutually like you back in order to get a convo going. And Ive even had a couple girls message me first after a mutual match.
Girls cant just sit back and do nothing on Tinder.
Of course an app that has people like each other based on photos is mostly and foremost about instant physical attraction (looks is what matters on that app)
And Tinder is a good bit different from OLD because women have to actually mutually like you back in order to get a convo going. And Ive even had a couple girls message me first after a mutual match.
Girls cant just sit back and do nothing on Tinder.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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My friends get more play on tinder then I do and I am better looking then them. When we go out I almost always get more play then they do creeping the night away. In fact one of the guys I know has better luck on Tinder. I think its just my profile picture is goofy looking and has other people in it, I'm not photogenic either I ****ing hate pictures. And looks is subjective seen some dude pulling mad girls and he was one of those overly swoll European dudes, but no homo dude was ugly as ****. But had ladies coming up to him....why? confidence.....and muscles lol
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I am dead serious....when we go out I sometimes even get girls come up to me. I am the go to guy to break them in
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I've had good luck with it since I started using it the past week. I'm average looking I guess. But I also had a girl ask me if I was into farm animals. Yikes.
It doesn't take into account body language or game, but it's also low-effort. Just swipe a bunch of profiles while you're taking a dump and see what happens. If a girl swipes "no" to you, you can always hit on her in person should you see her out in public. She'll never remember and then you can put that silky smooth game into action.
It doesn't take into account body language or game, but it's also low-effort. Just swipe a bunch of profiles while you're taking a dump and see what happens. If a girl swipes "no" to you, you can always hit on her in person should you see her out in public. She'll never remember and then you can put that silky smooth game into action.
Tinder hates me. I literally got 1 match and I don't consider myself to be the ugliest guy around. But yeah, of course, it's looks based. And even if you're good looking you need the right picture, 'cause girls feel like they have so much choice that they swipe most guys to the left (which is not good).
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I have more luck on POF. As a matter of fact....I remember people really well especially faces, anyway long story shot, hit some bars up in Wrigleyville. Some white chick comes in I guess I caught her eye because she instantly started talking to me and playing with my hat. With in a few minutes I got this slut to show me her tramp stamp and was already feeling up on her thigh. I played it smooth walked away talked to other people. Anyway got her number. She was a 5 from 1-10 so it was like ehhhh save it for a rainy day. Turns out months before I tried messaging her on POF. She never messaged back....she did look at my profile......in short I am done taking pictures had a few chicks tell me I look better in person. Family members use to say I took hideous photos lmao
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A few friends and I do tinder and use it mainly as a game. See who can say the most ridiculous stuff. It's all about having 4-5 good pics and then being able to completely throw the girl off her game. Most of them are there purely for ego boosts. I've made female friends make a profile, and within an hour they have 50+ matches if they swipe yes for each one.
Key is not caring. I usually say stuff on an opener that's an off the wall quote or question. If they think it's weird, they're obviously not fun. If they can keep up with the banter for 5-6 messages then I say something like "this app zaps my batteries. As long as you promise you aren't some creepy fat dude named Phil, message me. ###." Always works, and they're more chasing you because you don't ask for their number.
But always use tinder as a supplement to meeting girls. Most of them are there to feel better about themselves or mess with guys while laughing with their friends. Just approach it with the zero ****s given attitude and it can be fun. It's just a game basically
Key is not caring. I usually say stuff on an opener that's an off the wall quote or question. If they think it's weird, they're obviously not fun. If they can keep up with the banter for 5-6 messages then I say something like "this app zaps my batteries. As long as you promise you aren't some creepy fat dude named Phil, message me. ###." Always works, and they're more chasing you because you don't ask for their number.
But always use tinder as a supplement to meeting girls. Most of them are there to feel better about themselves or mess with guys while laughing with their friends. Just approach it with the zero ****s given attitude and it can be fun. It's just a game basically
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I just found out about this app the other day after watching my friend's sister use it. She just uses it to see how many guys like her and to boost her ego. I think it's pretty much a waste of time.
Yeah, but a lot of these guys are swole as fvck or decent looking. I mean, that was able to get them into the door in order to spit game. I'm not that great looking and am working on the muscles part...I don't even get the opportunity to spit game with this app. That's the point I'm trying to make. At least with OLD I can spit game to any girl.4north1side2 said:
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Is Tinder, the dating app that allows you to upload pics and nothing more, mainly about looks? No, absolutely not!!teddy said:
Well, as I don't know much about the app, I guess a better way to put this is.. is it even worth using if you're not that great looking? I think that was my question...but I kind of didn't put that when explaining myself.Bokanovsky said: