"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is Tinder dead or what?

the_stig

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My experience:

September 2013: Approximately 10 quality matches per day, lots of great conversation and flirting, obtaining numbers daily, hot chicks even volunteering their number after a few messages, landing dates galore. An absolute goldmine.


Fast forward...


February 2014: Couple matches per day if I'm lucky, most are uggs or single mothers with 17 kids, the attractive matches seldom reply or are quick to dismiss me, even the fatties seem standoffish, lots of "this is soo overwhelming" type comments. Still get the occasional number or date but mostly just a shadow of its former self.



I'm still using the same pictures and bio since day 1 (decided to leave well enough alone). So that's not it.

Just curious if anyone else has noticed a gradual decline? I figured it's either became flooded with increasingly better looking guys, my current age of 31 now vs 29 then is somehow a deterrent, girls have moved onto the next trendy dating device, standards and egos have further shot into orbit, or any combination thereof.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sylvester the cat

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Whisper is the new app everyone's talking about. Tinder is indeed dead. Very short shelf life these new apps.
 

Meisterman

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Nah, it's because you've already swiped all the chicks in your area and vice versa. I thought the same thing, till I went down state for the weekend in an area I haven't used tinder before, and got a quick 40+ matches in a few short days.
 

JohnnyStorm

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Yup, dead imo.
The only matches I get are prostitutes asking me how many "roses" I'm willing to pay
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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El Payaso

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What Meisterman said. You already swiped through all your matches. If you go to a new area or expand your search radius, you'll get lots of new matches. Alternatively, you can just create a new account in your current area. You'll get lots of matches again.
 

Solomon

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Meisterman said:
Nah, it's because you've already swiped all the chicks in your area and vice versa. I thought the same thing, till I went down state for the weekend in an area I haven't used tinder before, and got a quick 40+ matches in a few short days.
Yup you use a fakeGPS app that works like Gold was able to pipeline 4 chicks that I met in LA that way.....living in a small midwest state you're better of traveling to a state that literally has millions of single women it was easy peasy

sylvester the cat said:
Whisper is the new app everyone's talking about. Tinder is indeed dead. Very short shelf life these new apps.
If whisper is the new "it" app were all doomed that shyt is like windows 3.1 of apps
 
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