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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is this woman on youtube talking about nice guys full of it? I think so
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
tony-montana
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half true. she's just talking rubbish cause she wants everyone to watch her i think that's the main reason she does it. girls love youtube cause they watch all the "your hot" comments roll in.
about the girls don't like *******s. it's true they don't... it's the way the things that *******s do that attract girls. they have confidence, they don't give a sh!t about anything, they are not afraid to say what's on their mind, etc. those things work to their advantage but at the same time most mature girls do not like a true a$$hole.
you can be nice and have them traits. that's the best combo.
about the girls don't like *******s. it's true they don't... it's the way the things that *******s do that attract girls. they have confidence, they don't give a sh!t about anything, they are not afraid to say what's on their mind, etc. those things work to their advantage but at the same time most mature girls do not like a true a$$hole.
you can be nice and have them traits. that's the best combo.
Sounded pretty spot on to me, not sure why you'd think she's full of it.
On compliments:
At first I keep compliments to things like "I like your shoes" or some other fashion accessory, and use them very sparingly.
Then only if things are getting sexual will I compliment her on her face like "You have beautiful eyes" (or lips or whatever), as long as it's honest. It tells her you're a sexual guy (i.e. a man), and you like what you see.
I'll only compliment a girl on her body in bed. This way she knows it's honest since there's nothing you're trying to get from her at this point, and it makes her more comfortable and confident in bed.
On compliments:
At first I keep compliments to things like "I like your shoes" or some other fashion accessory, and use them very sparingly.
Then only if things are getting sexual will I compliment her on her face like "You have beautiful eyes" (or lips or whatever), as long as it's honest. It tells her you're a sexual guy (i.e. a man), and you like what you see.
I'll only compliment a girl on her body in bed. This way she knows it's honest since there's nothing you're trying to get from her at this point, and it makes her more comfortable and confident in bed.
you have to see her other videos to understand. she has huge tattoos all over her arms and is constantly fighting/insulting people on the internet...i HIGHLY doubt she is the type that guys for "nice guys", but sleezebags and then whines about them.Teej said:
She said that CONFIDENCE is attractive. Ideally, you want to be confident and nice.rapidfire said:
The reason "nice guys" finish last is because almost all of them lack confidence, and demonstrate low worth. If you compliment a girl like she said she's been complimented before, you put her on a pedestal, as though you see yourself below her in terms of value. Besides being nice, you're also demonstrating your low worth, and thus your lack of confidence. It is only the manly qualities of "*******s" and "sleazebags" that girls find attractive, such as their confidence, strength (in terms of frame), exciting nature, and unpredictability. Most guys, and especially most "nice guys" lack these qualities. These guys aren't really *******s, they're usually just very confident and speak their minds, and never place themselves below a woman in terms of value.
Like she said, being an ******* will get you nowhere. It's not like you find the hottie in line at the grocery store, butt in front of her, pull her hair with a disgusted look on your face and tell her it looks like ****, spit in her face and expect her to dig you.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This chick has no credibility.
Look at the comments sections, replied by this chick to other posters trying to stir the hornet's nest and start a debate.
First lets look at her background:
"My ex husband was a sweet guy that i wasnt as attracted to. He's my ex now. I gave him a chance.. 3 years of a chance. i was never that attracted to him, he did NOT have money, but he treated me well.. but our bedroom life was horrific, and it was tearing our marriage apart. There was no romantic, intimate, or sexual chemistry. If you think that's not a good reason, then you haven't experienced it yourself."
This chick already had been married and divorced and she is only 22 years old. Can you say "DAMAGED GOODS?"
Here comes the hornets:
"Man it's really sad to see how many angry men there are out there. Then again, the happy ones probably wouldn't bother watching this video, because they needn't bother. So I'm not all that depressed about it."
Typical woman shaming tactics to bring down men who don't agree with her. Disgusting.
But then she attacks others for not agreeing with her view point while ignoring the fact she disagrees with others view point:
"You're delusional and you didn't listen to a thing I said in the video. You'll continue to walk around only seeing life and relationships from your perspective, only, never wanting to even ATTEMPT to take any one else's point of view in. It's not ALWAYS the same story."
and then she justifys it all because of how she feels. So that means that if a woman feels a certain way then it must be true!!:
"the same people who I know will watch and not hear a FVCKING Word I'm saying. People like you. This is my perspective. It's not a lie, it's how i truly feel. What reason would I have to lie about how I feel??"
and alas all this cute nice understanding girl video she posted as supposly portraying her true self is shuttered with comments like this:
"God you are all a bunch of ****ing whiny little b1tches. Grow some fvcking ball's you ****s! I got bigger testicles than all of you. I wanna beat the living sh1t out of you little terds."
Next time don't listen to B.S spewed by AW on youtube. Listening to her advice is like listening to a bum on the street on how to invest in the stock market and make money.
Look at the comments sections, replied by this chick to other posters trying to stir the hornet's nest and start a debate.
First lets look at her background:
"My ex husband was a sweet guy that i wasnt as attracted to. He's my ex now. I gave him a chance.. 3 years of a chance. i was never that attracted to him, he did NOT have money, but he treated me well.. but our bedroom life was horrific, and it was tearing our marriage apart. There was no romantic, intimate, or sexual chemistry. If you think that's not a good reason, then you haven't experienced it yourself."
This chick already had been married and divorced and she is only 22 years old. Can you say "DAMAGED GOODS?"
Here comes the hornets:
"Man it's really sad to see how many angry men there are out there. Then again, the happy ones probably wouldn't bother watching this video, because they needn't bother. So I'm not all that depressed about it."
Typical woman shaming tactics to bring down men who don't agree with her. Disgusting.
But then she attacks others for not agreeing with her view point while ignoring the fact she disagrees with others view point:
"You're delusional and you didn't listen to a thing I said in the video. You'll continue to walk around only seeing life and relationships from your perspective, only, never wanting to even ATTEMPT to take any one else's point of view in. It's not ALWAYS the same story."
and then she justifys it all because of how she feels. So that means that if a woman feels a certain way then it must be true!!:
"the same people who I know will watch and not hear a FVCKING Word I'm saying. People like you. This is my perspective. It's not a lie, it's how i truly feel. What reason would I have to lie about how I feel??"
and alas all this cute nice understanding girl video she posted as supposly portraying her true self is shuttered with comments like this:
"God you are all a bunch of ****ing whiny little b1tches. Grow some fvcking ball's you ****s! I got bigger testicles than all of you. I wanna beat the living sh1t out of you little terds."
Next time don't listen to B.S spewed by AW on youtube. Listening to her advice is like listening to a bum on the street on how to invest in the stock market and make money.
tsmith2334
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To answer your question bluntly, she's full of it.
She also comes across as pretty dumb and not well spoken.
"Any girl on medication would go after an assh0le?" Give me a break.
She also comes across as pretty dumb and not well spoken.
"Any girl on medication would go after an assh0le?" Give me a break.
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the moment i saw her talking i hated her. all the girls on youtube are up themselves. they just wanna see all the comments about how hot they are to feel good about themselves. re assured in a way. they are bored.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
True, Teej - u took words right out of my mouth.
Looks like some of our guys felt so damn threatened after they saw a video of a girl expressing her opinion.
But the so-suavers are analyzing her, castigating, trying to belittle the girl. Like some kind of alarm went off and they gotta gather the troops to prepare for a possible battle... argghhh
oh sosuave
Looks like some of our guys felt so damn threatened after they saw a video of a girl expressing her opinion.
But the so-suavers are analyzing her, castigating, trying to belittle the girl. Like some kind of alarm went off and they gotta gather the troops to prepare for a possible battle... argghhh
oh sosuave
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she's just like the rest of them youtube girls. very annoying.
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Heh heh once again DJDamage hits it out of the park with his assessment of the situation and once again I use all of my youtube accounts to make sure his message is seen by the masses. :crackup:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She says alot of stupid things in the video (like woman dont like bad boys, some woman love people that say your ****ing ugly and stuff in their faces, I have seen and heard it myself) , but most of the other stuff she says is correct.
The main point is that woman like confident man. Shes talking about natural man.
The main point is that woman like confident man. Shes talking about natural man.
hahaha keep on slaying those AW b1tches KX!KontrollerX said:
I am disagreeing with the message she is sending out to the masses of clueless of AFC's out there, who keep on believing that there is hope for them by listening to this verbal diarrhea.Teej said:
Nothing she said was earth shattering. AFC's worldwide know that they need to be confident with women but they are clueless of how to get genuine confidence. Genuine confidence comes within, and it comes with self improvement. The worst thing a guy can do is listen to a chick of what she thinks are attractive qualities a man must posses in order to attract her, and then try to mimic it and apply to all women.
Her own perception of reality as a woman is too fvcked up for any man to mold for their own. What "a$$hole" and a "nice" guy means to her, means completely different to a man.
A man sees an a$$hole as a guy that is truly selfish, has inflated ego that rubs it into everyone's faces. A man sees a nice guy as a guy without balls.
The chick in the video cannot differentiate between the two because as a woman she doesn’t really care how a guy treats people around him but rather how he treats her. Therefore she perceives an a$$hole as to someone who treats HER bad. A man can really be a scum and treats others like sh1t but if his woman loves him and he treats her right (by keeping her interest in him high) then that is all that she cares for and she will perceive him as a nice guy with “confidence”.
And lastly I really find it funny that she says that the same guys, who are jealous of *******s, are attracted to “slut b1tches” who are the equivalent of the a$$holes. Correct me if I am wrong but if she is 22 and got married at 19, then she probably fvcked around in her mid teens which is a slut behavior after all. Then she curses people who disagree with her opinions, so isn't that the behaviour of a b1tch??!!
This chick is probably bored when her man is not around, she needs to be sucking more of his d1ck and talk a little less. Even though I don't know her man, he will probably agree with me because he is a man after all (and he has to put up with her sh1t).